"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
FR: Approached a few sets at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Real,Real said:Elstud, your a ****ing fool for completely ignoring the advice I gave you in this thread
You don't need to make 5 consecutive posts.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
And youve posted like 40 threads about your stupid ass approaches and not one of them was successfull, was there ever a number or did you guys go out somewhere after?ElStud said:Tell me Dav and tell me Real, what makes you guys think you're so big? You're obvious not as good at getting women as you make yourselfs to be. Neither of you have anything threads and you both have less than a hundred posts, but feel the right to act superior to everyone on the board.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.