"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
FR: Approached a few sets at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Real,Real said:Elstud, your a ****ing fool for completely ignoring the advice I gave you in this thread
You don't need to make 5 consecutive posts.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
And youve posted like 40 threads about your stupid ass approaches and not one of them was successfull, was there ever a number or did you guys go out somewhere after?ElStud said:Tell me Dav and tell me Real, what makes you guys think you're so big? You're obvious not as good at getting women as you make yourselfs to be. Neither of you have anything threads and you both have less than a hundred posts, but feel the right to act superior to everyone on the board.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.