"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Real,Real said:Elstud, your a ****ing fool for completely ignoring the advice I gave you in this thread
You don't need to make 5 consecutive posts.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
And youve posted like 40 threads about your stupid ass approaches and not one of them was successfull, was there ever a number or did you guys go out somewhere after?ElStud said:Tell me Dav and tell me Real, what makes you guys think you're so big? You're obvious not as good at getting women as you make yourselfs to be. Neither of you have anything threads and you both have less than a hundred posts, but feel the right to act superior to everyone on the board.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.