"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
FR: Approached a few sets at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Real,Real said:Elstud, your a ****ing fool for completely ignoring the advice I gave you in this thread
You don't need to make 5 consecutive posts.
why didnt you take my advice earlier in the thread? When you cold approach like you love doing, you need to genuinly take an active interest in the girl and her life, you need to show it by actually talking to her instead of busting joke after joke after joke. It also helps if you get eye contact before the approach. And the problem is not with your words, but its with how you feel, because you make it seem like you are just waltzing around "trying to have fun" and talking shyt to every girl you see, when REALLY what you should be feeling is genuine interest to get to know the girl you are approaching, and then she'll respond better
oh yea and stop approaching at shcool, you dont want everyone to know u as "that creepy kid who keeps approaching random girls" do ya??? approach in places where people don't know you yet and u have a clean slate
And youve posted like 40 threads about your stupid ass approaches and not one of them was successfull, was there ever a number or did you guys go out somewhere after?ElStud said:Tell me Dav and tell me Real, what makes you guys think you're so big? You're obvious not as good at getting women as you make yourselfs to be. Neither of you have anything threads and you both have less than a hundred posts, but feel the right to act superior to everyone on the board.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.