FR: Approached a few sets at lunch.

[sandman6991]

Why don't you just let the girls come to you and your friends at lunch?

You say they're interested...

 

[ElStud]

Why don't you just let the girls come to you and your friends at lunch?

You say they're interested...

Actually, the girls from the 3rd approach did initiate convo with me at the football game on Saturday and the two girls from that set actually introduced me to one of their friends.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Actually, the girls from the 3rd approach did initiate convo with me at the football game on Saturday and the two girls from that set actually introduced me to one of their friends.

Hooray you're a pimp.

I used more DJing skills today on my hairdresser than all 3 of your approaches combined....

 

[TheVirtualMind]

Try using different stories...

 

[MagnuM]

Hmmm...

 

[HandyAndy]

Phail.

 

[Bvbidd]

Wow, those were really bad.

 

[smooth guy]

How about you make some friends first that you can hangout with at lunch so you don't look like a lonely creep, and also company for your weekends since I've read in another thread you don't have much going on.

Get more socially acceptable first, then focus on girls. By the sound of it it seems like you're always by yourself on lunch breaks and simply approach any chick that's in front of you and negging them.

EVEN if you succeed with a girl eventually - it will be a pretty boring relationship because you apparently haven't got much going on for you.

Of course I'm only judging from your posts. But I haven't once seen you mention a friend.

 

[ElStud]

Try using different stories...

That's what I hate about the advice you guys give though. It's WORDS, WORDS, and more WORDS. You guys think if you're not using the right WORDS, it's a bad approach, this is clearly not truth. It does not matter what story you're using, it doesn't matter what the f*ck you say to the girl, if you're not conveying the right things, she's not going to be interested in you anyways. Get a total newbie to the game to go up to a girl with the best story ever, she probably won't be interested cause she can sense his agenda and that he's not displaying his true personality.

You want to argue with me that that's not true? Then tell me how I went up to a group of girls recently with "Ruff ruff! Yeah, that's what my dog says when cute girls come into my house. Yeah, I can see it now, you and me are on a date and my dog bites you, but then I tell it stay and it's all good" and the girls were laughing at me all interested and sh1t. Mind you, this was JUST last week I did this approach. But yeah, these chicks were laughing at me, interested in what I had to say, giving eye contact and all that stuff. The whole reason I failed that set was that this other dude came in and AMOG'd me. So "Words, words, words" that.

How about you make some friends first that you can hangout with at lunch so you don't look like a lonely creep, and also company for your weekends since I've read in another thread you don't have much going on.

Get more socially acceptable first, then focus on girls. By the sound of it it seems like you're always by yourself on lunch breaks and simply approach any chick that's in front of you and negging them.

EVEN if you succeed with a girl eventually - it will be a pretty boring relationship because you apparently haven't got much going on for you.

Of course I'm only judging from your posts. But I haven't once seen you mention a friend.

Dude, don't worry about my friends, I have SEVERAL friends but ofcourse these aren't guys I'd actually game with. I just don't like the idea of fvcking game girls with your friends, since they probably don't understand PU. If anything I would bring my friends over and they'd make the set harder for me. Nah, PUing with friends aint something I do. Plus, I don't even talk to my friends at lunch, I just use lunch time to approach girls.

And yeah, #3 might have been a bad approach, but the girls are still talking and interested me. They even initiated convo with me at the football game on Saturday and introduced me to one of their hot friends.

 

[smooth guy]

Dude, don't worry about my friends, I have SEVERAL friends but ofcourse these aren't guys I'd actually game with. I just don't like the idea of fvcking game girls with your friends, since they probably don't understand PU. If anything I would bring my friends over and they'd make the set harder for me. Nah, PUing with friends aint something I do. Plus, I don't even talk to my friends at lunch, I just use lunch time to approach girls.

No no no... I didn't say use your friends as wingmen.. I said use your friends as social proof. Social proof is very important when it comes to attracting and getting interest from women and ESPECIALLY in high school. No girl is going to date someone who doesn't have any social proof and most of the times he's by himself. When women see you have social proof, part of the game is over.

Why not talk to your friends during breaks? You don't talk to them on breaks, you don't have any interaction with them on the weekends.. When DO you interact with them...in class? That isn't enough.

you wanna be more 'alpha'. Have you ever seen the popular guys being on their own on lunch breaks? Have you ever seen an alpha on a lunch break getting in a set of girls and just eat without any interaction with the girls? Not to mention an alpha is always surrounded by a circle of friends.

I'll tell you what. As opposed of trying to make tons of friends find a friend or two that both of you share same interests (i.e. music...you said you're in a band). 3 years ago I wasn't too socially accepted until I became friends with a guy who was in my class, who was an alpha and very socially acceptable. The guy didn't hesitate to ask me to hangout with him and his buddies. Slowly I became one of them...from that point on I just kept making more and friends. By going out more often my social skills greatly improved and my interactions with people generally improved.

My last girlfriend I met on a night out, who was a friend of a male friend of mine. So were the ex-s. Never once did I feel the need to cold approach a girl I didn't know, unless it would seem natural to do that. If you get a good social circle you won't even need to do this cold approaching crap, but that's your choice anyway.

I insist that you should make more friends. Learn to "game" the male human beings, and then move on to the more complicated ones.
Start interacting more with those friends, ask them what they're up to on Friday night or the weekend. Start improving your social life and I promise you your success rate with girls will be greater. A loner (I'm not saying thats what you are but it is more likely the impression you give) that just goes up to girls on lunch breaks and starts negging them is not the way to go. And negs should be toned down in high school. High school is more about reputation and looking good...AND knowing how to talk. Just meet new friends and hang out with them and your social skills will improve automatically. You won't even have to consider using this negging ****. being playful is gonna come naturally.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Ahhh too much text..
how about you just try being less full of yourself and a touch nicer to make girls more comfortable around you?

 

[ElStud]

Ahhh too much text..
how about you just try being less full of yourself and a touch nicer to make girls more comfortable around you?

Best advice you've given yet, yeah, I actually have been overgaming the girls. Negging is good when you've just met them, but eventually girls will get tired of that type of stuff. Since I already know the girls in set 3, I'm going to stop with the negging and just vibe them, kinoing whichever one I want to date.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Best advice you've given yet.

thank you for the compliment el.
I think you should find new ones though, because your friends in set #3 probably don't see you as bf material from the way you acted around them.

find some new ones, which is always fun

 

[Real]

people, think of an awkwardly social creepy 17 year old kissless virgin who THINKS he's the shyt because his ego is huge for absolutely no reason.........kinda like that guy who hits on 20 girls at a party, gets brutally rejected by all of them, and still says "yupp im da man baby im da man!" (think of the guys at Night at the Roxbury)


Elstud thinks what he is doing is 100% right, yet he has no proof of success to back it up - he's a crazy creepy guy really

his looks are the problem, and they cause him to be so socially awkward

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

people, think of an awkwardly social creepy 17 year old kissless virgin who THINKS he's the shyt because his ego is huge for absolutely no reason.........kinda like that guy who hits on 20 girls at a party, gets brutally rejected by all of them, and still says "yupp im da man baby im da man!" (think of the guys at Night at the Roxbury)


Elstud thinks what he is doing is 100% right, yet he has no proof of success to back it up - he's a crazy creepy guy really

his looks are the problem, and they cause him to be so socially awkward

to help you, we have to beat the truth into you.
CREEP
WIERDO
GAY FAG
VIRGIN
LOSER
RETARD

I'm kidding... don't take what we say seriously, but notice what the common reactions are. That's how you'll come closer to the truth.

 

[HandyAndy]

your boring dude

 

[Lust]

people, think of an awkwardly social creepy 17 year old kissless virgin who THINKS he's the shyt because his ego is huge for absolutely no reason.........kinda like that guy who hits on 20 girls at a party, gets brutally rejected by all of them, and still says "yupp im da man baby im da man!" (think of the guys at Night at the Roxbury)


Elstud thinks what he is doing is 100% right, yet he has no proof of success to back it up - he's a crazy creepy guy really

his looks are the problem, and they cause him to be so socially awkward

No, everything you said was on the money except the looks part. It's his ego. And his inability to take criticism without getting defensive.

 

[smooth guy]

I don't see how that makes him a fun guy with a fun personality, as he usually claims.
I'd say that's the opposite.

 

[ElStud]

I don't even know why I bother man. The majority of the people giving advice in this thread don't know what they're talking or aren't getting consistantly laid. When you lose that "words, words, words" attitude and actually start talking about what truly matters, subcommunication and conveyance, call me back. I approached a girl with "Ruff ruff! That's what my dog says when cute girls enter my house, I can see it now, I take you to my house for a date and my dog bites you, but then I tell it to stay and it's all good" and I was getting tons of interest. If you don't understand the game, don't give advice because clearly you guys could be telling people they're doing stuff wrong when they're actually doing stuff right because of your "words, words, words" attitude. This is why when someone gets interest with an opener that's not good on "words" you guys can't say sh1t.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Guys keep on arguing, I've learned to take ElStud's failed approaches as amusement instead of actually trying to critique him. It's pointless because he's sensitive to criticism, but the stuff he says is great.