Found my girl contacting her ex on Facebook!!!!!

[youngwilliam]

And yes, I'm excited! Well, not really contacting him, just adding him as a friend. Foul play, correct?

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Bad, I would think.

 

[IceCream]

You are officially whipped.

 

[In2theGame]

And yes, I'm excited! Well, not really contacting him, just adding him as a friend. Foul play, correct?

Thats not a good sign. I wouldnt like it. What business does she have with an ex boyfriend if your her boyfriend?. If youve been looking for a way out of the relationship, here's your excuse.

 

[Sadao]

it's not rare for a girl to end a relationship with someone and continue being friends with them, and that's exactly what this could be. It's a different story if they have had no contact until now.

 

[Max Power]

Well, not really contacting him, just adding him as a friend.

Well if he's dead that's okay, but since he's probably not that means she's going to end up contacting him at some point and you shouldn't be happy about that.

 

[KontrollerX]

Kind of hard to say whether its foul play or not.

Some chicks just insist on keeping friendly with the old flames.

Sometimes its innocent, usually its not.

You kind of have to filter your selection of chicks meaning for what you want out of one when you're just beginning with her by playfully questioning them about male friendships.

If the answer is she likes to have a lot of male friends and thats not what you want out of a chick and makes you feel uncomfortable then you must NEXT.

So it could possibly be a beginning sign of disrespect towards you.

Hmmm, she been acting different towards you lately other than this?

 

[In2theGame]

Kind of hard to say whether its foul play or not.

Could be a beginning sign of disrespect towards you.

Hmmm, she been acting different towards you lately other than this?

You bet your azz its foul play. Let her find out He's contacting an Ex of his and you will see the hell she will try to give him about "Why are you talking to your ex?" . Trust me man, this is never a good sign. this is her former "Fvck" and she has no business contacting when she has a B/F right now.

 

[TheVirtualMind]

You guys are stupid as hell.

"Oh my god, she saw her ex on facebook and added him!"

BFD! EVERYONE adds their ex usually. The more you wonder if she is cheating, the more likely she will be. Why? BECAUSE YOU ARE INSECURE.

 

[youngwilliam]

No, no different behavior. I just asked a dumb question, " Who is **&^&&:" And she said, " Oh, I used to date him, but that was a long time ago". So, I said, " Cool, you should go and be with him." And, I left it at that. No sense in getting all worked up. The ass kicker is, now she feels all guilty, walking around and not saying anything. Ah, I tell you fellas, being cool about situations like this, gives meaning to SoSuave (hence the name).

 

[Eternal]

No, no different behavior. I just asked a dumb question, " Who is **&^&&:" And she said, " Oh, I used to date him, but that was a long time ago". So, I said, " Cool, you should go and be with him." And, I left it at that. No sense in getting all worked up. The ass kicker is, now she feels all guilty, walking around and not saying anything. Ah, I tell you fellas, being cool about situations like this, gives meaning to SoSuave (hence the name).

That's not suave, that's just stupid.

 

[youngwilliam]

what the **** is that supposed to mean?

 

[Eternal]

what the **** is that supposed to mean?

Exactly what I said. You were not suave, just stupid.

HOW is it suave to tell a girl "oh, you should go and be with him" in a situation like that? I mean, if she cheated, yeah, go tell her that. But since you asked who it was and she replied, your reply/comeback was just...Well, stupid. It was not ****y. It was not funny. It was not suave.

You obviously have a long way to go. Only a few people in this thread have it right. Those being:

Sadao, TheVirtualMind, and IceCream.

 

[youngwilliam]

Like it was mentioned, she has no biz with her ex (or at least I thought). What the h&44 can you can do in a situation like thst? I think being non-confrontational is the best recourse.......

 

[pimpaholicskip]

how bout u stop overanalyzing and enjoy life

she friended him just for attention

 

[Eternal]

how bout u stop overanalyzing and enjoy life

she friended him just for attention

OH THANK GOD! Someone else finally gets it.

William, are you planning on analyzing you gf's every move?

"Oh man, she talked to the gas station attendant and they went to high school together...Better talk to her about that!"

 

[DJDamage]

Like it was mentioned, she has no biz with her ex (or at least I thought). What the h&44 can you can do in a situation like thst? I think being non-confrontational is the best recourse.......

I think not caring that its facebook and she ain't fvcking him in real life is what is important. You got to be able to trust your girl, she could be in a club with her girls or in a resturant and she could run into her ex and yes she is going to politley talk to him just like you would if you run into yours ( unless its your thing to avoid and run the other direction then be my guest).

Remember he is an ex for a reason, you are right now running the show and if she runs back to him it is because:

a) She never lost feelings for him and you were always just a sitting duck.
b) Your played a poor game and lowered her interest.

Unless she meets up with him in the real world, treat facebook as nothing.

 

[youngwilliam]

but why target the ex? there;s only one reason i target mine......

 

[pimpaholicskip]

OH THANK GOD! Someone else finally gets it.

William, are you planning on analyzing you gf's every move?

"Oh man, she talked to the gas station attendant and they went to high school together...Better talk to her about that!"

im glad someone else get's how to act like a man

 

[PRMoon]

Oh you kids and your silly dating rituals. All of a sudden adding an ex to an internet social circle is "foul play". This is the de evolution of the player at it's finest.