You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .PJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
Wait a minute. Do you think that women actually are looking for solutions when they log onto forms like this. Have you ever been to the iVillage forum? It's a Oprah fest. The advice that they get is geared toward landing a "nice guy" (AFC). Given that it's interesting when you understand a woman's psycho (er, psyche), but do you really want plan your strategy based on the ideas of women that are basically AFCs?PJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
I didn't know that his site was for women.Call_Me_Daddy said:The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Its not. But she can learn something about how men think.. plus theres more women there than on this forum.Francisco d'Anconia said:I didn't know that his site was for women.
No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.Call_Me_Daddy said:The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .
And a little tip for you. You are lonely because you are either ugly, or overweight. Guys do not aspire to get fatties. Doesn't matter how much money you have or what a great personality you have. Guys will only settle for you if you are fat or ugly because they could not get hotter chicks.
Just ask.
Every guy wants a hot chick... but they will settle for what they can get sometimes.
Hell, I was just going to say that PJD just wanted information from a woman's point of view. Plus I don't think he was looking for yet another dating site for men.Scrumtulescence said:No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.
1. PJD is not a girl.
2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis.
And you come across as a patronizing crab wallowing in the grey area of "complexity".Scrumtulescence said:No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.
1. Who cares hes asking useless chump questions whats the difference? . "where do chicks go to self improve"1. PJD is not a girl.
2. True, you wouldnt believe the sh!t guys like me can get away with, but bozos like you will always be there to pick up the pieces and tell us all how hard hotties have it.2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
3. Clearly.3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis
That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!Scrumtulescence said:2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No, they don't. A girl that could land pretty much any guy she wants? What's so easy about that?diplomatic_lies said:That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!
check cosmos websitePJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
How's that?( . )( . ) said:The irony in Call me daddy's post is unreal even if it wasnt in jest.