"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Forum for chicks trying to self improve and find guys?

PJD

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I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Call_Me_Daddy

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PJD said:
I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .


And a little tip for you. You are lonely because you are either ugly, or overweight. Guys do not aspire to get fatties. Doesn't matter how much money you have or what a great personality you have. Guys will only settle for you if you are fat or ugly because they could not get hotter chicks.

Just ask.

Every guy wants a hot chick... but they will settle for what they can get sometimes.


Here's some tips:
You might want to look at fitness and training sites to get in shape. I reccomend female bodybuilding sites. They have great female trainers (most of em have sexy bodies too) that know what they are talking about. Get in shape.

If you PM me I can send you a link to a great BBing site that has a female training section. They know what to do to get nice firm bodies. Not buff... but slim. <Trust me... you want slim.

And another thing: Take better care of yourself. Wear some makeup if you have to. And proper grooming and hygene goes a LONG way.


That's it!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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PJD said:
I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
Wait a minute. Do you think that women actually are looking for solutions when they log onto forms like this. Have you ever been to the iVillage forum? It's a Oprah fest. The advice that they get is geared toward landing a "nice guy" (AFC). Given that it's interesting when you understand a woman's psycho (er, psyche), but do you really want plan your strategy based on the ideas of women that are basically AFCs?
 

spesmilitis

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i've known some cute girls who don't go out with guys for month. They're just not very socially suave. They don't know how to show interest or excitmentm, they aviod eye contact and have 'don't approach me' look on their face. They might come off as a little dull.

I've also known a girl who wasn't very cute, but she dated guys better looking than her. Its cuz she knows how to show interest, she makes it easy for guys to approach her and take the next step.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Call_Me_Daddy

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I didn't know that his site was for women.
Its not. But she can learn something about how men think.. plus theres more women there than on this forum.

Its more helpful to her than this place.
 

Scrumtulescence

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .


And a little tip for you. You are lonely because you are either ugly, or overweight. Guys do not aspire to get fatties. Doesn't matter how much money you have or what a great personality you have. Guys will only settle for you if you are fat or ugly because they could not get hotter chicks.

Just ask.

Every guy wants a hot chick... but they will settle for what they can get sometimes.
No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.

1. PJD is not a girl.

2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.

3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Scrumtulescence said:
No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.

1. PJD is not a girl.

2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.

3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis.
Hell, I was just going to say that PJD just wanted information from a woman's point of view. Plus I don't think he was looking for yet another dating site for men.
 

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Scrumtulescence said:
No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.
And you come across as a patronizing crab wallowing in the grey area of "complexity".


1. PJD is not a girl.
1. Who cares hes asking useless chump questions whats the difference? . "where do chicks go to self improve" :rolleyes: Give me a break, Cosmo, Cleo?
2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
2. True, you wouldnt believe the sh!t guys like me can get away with, but bozos like you will always be there to pick up the pieces and tell us all how hard hotties have it.
3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis
3. Clearly.

The irony in Call me daddy's post is unreal even if it wasnt in jest.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Scrumtulescence said:
2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJ_in_making

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diplomatic_lies said:
That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!
No, they don't. A girl that could land pretty much any guy she wants? What's so easy about that? :rolleyes:
 

Rata Blanca

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PJD said:
I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
check cosmos website
You will be amazed the articles xD
Women flirt basicly with corporal language.
oh and the sex positions articles oh my.
 
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