She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .PJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
Wait a minute. Do you think that women actually are looking for solutions when they log onto forms like this. Have you ever been to the iVillage forum? It's a Oprah fest. The advice that they get is geared toward landing a "nice guy" (AFC). Given that it's interesting when you understand a woman's psycho (er, psyche), but do you really want plan your strategy based on the ideas of women that are basically AFCs?PJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
I didn't know that his site was for women.Call_Me_Daddy said:The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Its not. But she can learn something about how men think.. plus theres more women there than on this forum.Francisco d'Anconia said:I didn't know that his site was for women.
No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.Call_Me_Daddy said:The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .
And a little tip for you. You are lonely because you are either ugly, or overweight. Guys do not aspire to get fatties. Doesn't matter how much money you have or what a great personality you have. Guys will only settle for you if you are fat or ugly because they could not get hotter chicks.
Just ask.
Every guy wants a hot chick... but they will settle for what they can get sometimes.
Hell, I was just going to say that PJD just wanted information from a woman's point of view. Plus I don't think he was looking for yet another dating site for men.Scrumtulescence said:No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.
1. PJD is not a girl.
2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis.
And you come across as a patronizing crab wallowing in the grey area of "complexity".Scrumtulescence said:No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.
1. Who cares hes asking useless chump questions whats the difference? . "where do chicks go to self improve"1. PJD is not a girl.
2. True, you wouldnt believe the sh!t guys like me can get away with, but bozos like you will always be there to pick up the pieces and tell us all how hard hotties have it.2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
3. Clearly.3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis
That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!Scrumtulescence said:2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No, they don't. A girl that could land pretty much any guy she wants? What's so easy about that?diplomatic_lies said:That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!
check cosmos websitePJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
How's that?( . )( . ) said:The irony in Call me daddy's post is unreal even if it wasnt in jest.