She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .PJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
Wait a minute. Do you think that women actually are looking for solutions when they log onto forms like this. Have you ever been to the iVillage forum? It's a Oprah fest. The advice that they get is geared toward landing a "nice guy" (AFC). Given that it's interesting when you understand a woman's psycho (er, psyche), but do you really want plan your strategy based on the ideas of women that are basically AFCs?PJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
I didn't know that his site was for women.Call_Me_Daddy said:The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Its not. But she can learn something about how men think.. plus theres more women there than on this forum.Francisco d'Anconia said:I didn't know that his site was for women.
No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.Call_Me_Daddy said:The tom leykis show. Here's a great forum: www.leykisonline.com/ .
And a little tip for you. You are lonely because you are either ugly, or overweight. Guys do not aspire to get fatties. Doesn't matter how much money you have or what a great personality you have. Guys will only settle for you if you are fat or ugly because they could not get hotter chicks.
Just ask.
Every guy wants a hot chick... but they will settle for what they can get sometimes.
Hell, I was just going to say that PJD just wanted information from a woman's point of view. Plus I don't think he was looking for yet another dating site for men.Scrumtulescence said:No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.
1. PJD is not a girl.
2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis.
And you come across as a patronizing crab wallowing in the grey area of "complexity".Scrumtulescence said:No offense but you come off as a bit of a simplistic tard. Just my opinion.
1. Who cares hes asking useless chump questions whats the difference? . "where do chicks go to self improve"1. PJD is not a girl.
2. True, you wouldnt believe the sh!t guys like me can get away with, but bozos like you will always be there to pick up the pieces and tell us all how hard hotties have it.2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
3. Clearly.3. Tom Leykis? WTF?
-edit- and no, not every guy thinks like Tom Leykis
That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!Scrumtulescence said:2. Not every physically attractive girl has an easy dating life.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No, they don't. A girl that could land pretty much any guy she wants? What's so easy about that?diplomatic_lies said:That's news to me. All a hot girl has to do is walk into a bar half-naked and she won't have a hard time finding anyone to get laid with. Unless she wants more than sex, which in America is a bizarre notion!
check cosmos websitePJD said:I was wondering if anybody knew of a forum similar to the DJ forum, but for girls. There have to be tons of lonely girls looking for advice to turn their situation around. It would be interesting to see in to the women's psyche.
How's that?( . )( . ) said:The irony in Call me daddy's post is unreal even if it wasnt in jest.