Former CIA spy talking about how to charm anyone quickly

[BillyPilgrim]

Thoughts with no actions, is futile.

I can think about losing 20 pounds, but if I'm not putting in the work, the pounds will remain.



She is a stranger.

Why would you (more likely than not) spend money on a stranger of a woman?



It's Mode 2.

And beta.

The work in is seducing her through words and pictures (and optionally voice). There's no money spent if she invites you straight over, moreover, she's the one usually spending money on the wine you're drinking before you smash.

It's not beta if you smash for 3 hours straight lmao.

Do what works for you. I quoted your post for general education purposes. Readers can select whatever method works best for them at whatever level they are at.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

The work in is seducing her through words and pictures (and optionally voice). There's no money spent if she invites you straight over

Not so fast.

You said..

"And you can smash at the end of the date (or during the date if she invites you straight over) or on date 2".


In your scenario..

1. Date first.
2. Maybe smash later.

or..

1. Second date.
2. Maybe smash later.


My scenario...

1. Sexual contact first.
2. Date later.

See the difference?

moreover, she's the one usually spending money on the wine you're drinking before you smash.

I'll believe it when I see it.

Most of you guys are just so happy to be on a date with a woman that you'll pay for dinner, drinks, Broadway show, band, juggling magician, mime show, hot balloon ride, and pony ride at the park.

It's not beta if you smash for 3 hours straight lmao.

That's a big if.

Do what works for you. I quoted your post for general education purposes. Readers can select whatever method works best for them at whatever level they are at.

Mode One (X) works best.

 

[Arete]

I don't doubt he worked for the CIA. What I find funny is how he's using his CIA background to market ordinary social skills as "secret spy tradecraft" for clicks and course sales.

"How to build rapport" becomes "CIA SEDUCTION SECRET."

"How to gather information during a conversation" becomes "CIA MIND CONTROL TECHNIQUE."

"Be observant, ask good questions, and let people talk about themselves" becomes "FORMER SPY REVEALS PSYCHOLOGICAL WEAPON."

Strip away the spy branding, and a lot of it is just common social intelligence packaged as classified wizardry.

This stuff is even in the DJ Bootcamp 2005, Week 2

Article 1 - This conversation stuff really works! (by meathead)
The number one rule of a conversation is to talk about the other person (the person you’re talking to).
By doing this, and having that person talk about herself, you will be perceived as a great
conversationalist.
Source: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16209
Experience for me, advice for you.
The story goes like this: I went out tonight with a few of my female friends (it's great to have female friends, by the way) and they
brought along a friend of theirs who I had only met one time before. I didn't have a great amount of interest in this girl, but I decided
that she would be great for practicing my DJ skills on. I didn't realise how powerful this material can be.
On the way back home, I started talking to her with the serious intent of refining my skills. As is advised on this board, she was the
subject of the conversation, and when the topics moved away from her, I tried to find a way to at least relate them to her, if not
move her back to being the main subject. I don't remember how we started talking, but once we did, I couldn't stop. Maybe I've
learned a lot, or maybe I was too focused on practicing, but the result was remarkable. In about 20 minutes, she went from
showing no interest in me to giving signals like it was her job.
So there are two lessons here. First, when it comes to talking to girls, talk to them about them. It's actually quite easy, because
most of the time, they can't shut up about themselves. The second lesson is to practice. Even if you find a girl you're not interested
in, as I did tonight, practice talking to her. Reading the posts here is great, but it's even better when you put when you learn into
action.

Article 2 - How to be a better conversationalist (by Poet)
A few quick tips on initiating and maintaining a conversation. Geared more towards a girl you are
interested in, but can easily be modified to work on any person.
Source: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16664
Have a real curiosity to find out about the person in front of you, that's #1. The mind is full of thoughts and dreams, how can you
not find things to talk about? This perplexes me to no end when people say they can't think of things to talk about with chicks. The
funniest part is to get into their little heads and open up all those closed drawers and just let the thoughts come tumbling out like so
many clothes that she has not tried on in ages. Yes, they still fit & it feels good to get them out and try them on for size. You make
her feel good by letting her do that.
#2, be a good listener & hear what she is saying, this will lead to numerous topics to discuss. You pick up the topic thread, you
lead, she follows.
#3, Intrigue her, make her think, ask "daring" anc "silly" questions like, "how would you feel if you were standing here in your
underwear talking to me" Whatever. just open up the topic and make her laugh about it.
#4, Ask about her opinions on the: present situation, her clothes, her work, her hobbies, her likes and dislikes, kissing, sex, food,
whatever! There are a million topics, the future, dreams, the past, family, relationships, sports etc.
#5 Have fun and it will all work out my friends. Think of yourself as a talk show host, keep it going and also let there be moments of
silence, goad her to start a topic by clamming up for 20 or 30 seconds, see where she leads it to, this will tell you a lot about her. If
she says nothing this also tells you a lot about her, You have to elicit more conversation. If she is totally devoid of initiating
conversation she is either not interested in you or she is a bimbo with no neuronal connections to speak of. If that is the case then
fluff her and go for Kino and the close.
#6 Let her respond and do most of the talking, you just prepare her and let her go, she'll take care of most of the words, You come
in when you need to and keep it rolling along.