"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Former CIA spy talking about how to charm anyone quickly

BillyPilgrim

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Thoughts with no actions, is futile.

I can think about losing 20 pounds, but if I'm not putting in the work, the pounds will remain.



She is a stranger.

Why would you (more likely than not) spend money on a stranger of a woman?



It's Mode 2.

And beta.
The work in is seducing her through words and pictures (and optionally voice). There's no money spent if she invites you straight over, moreover, she's the one usually spending money on the wine you're drinking before you smash.

It's not beta if you smash for 3 hours straight lmao.

Do what works for you. I quoted your post for general education purposes. Readers can select whatever method works best for them at whatever level they are at.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The work in is seducing her through words and pictures (and optionally voice). There's no money spent if she invites you straight over
Not so fast.

You said..

"And you can smash at the end of the date (or during the date if she invites you straight over) or on date 2".


In your scenario..

1. Date first.
2. Maybe smash later.

or..

1. Second date.
2. Maybe smash later.


My scenario...

1. Sexual contact first.
2. Date later.

See the difference?

moreover, she's the one usually spending money on the wine you're drinking before you smash.
I'll believe it when I see it.

Most of you guys are just so happy to be on a date with a woman that you'll pay for dinner, drinks, Broadway show, band, juggling magician, mime show, hot balloon ride, and pony ride at the park.

It's not beta if you smash for 3 hours straight lmao.
That's a big if.

Do what works for you. I quoted your post for general education purposes. Readers can select whatever method works best for them at whatever level they are at.
Mode One (X) works best.
 
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