"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Former CIA spy talking about how to charm anyone quickly

BillyPilgrim

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Thoughts with no actions, is futile.

I can think about losing 20 pounds, but if I'm not putting in the work, the pounds will remain.



She is a stranger.

Why would you (more likely than not) spend money on a stranger of a woman?



It's Mode 2.

And beta.
The work in is seducing her through words and pictures (and optionally voice). There's no money spent if she invites you straight over, moreover, she's the one usually spending money on the wine you're drinking before you smash.

It's not beta if you smash for 3 hours straight lmao.

Do what works for you. I quoted your post for general education purposes. Readers can select whatever method works best for them at whatever level they are at.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We_ArE_VeNOM

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The work in is seducing her through words and pictures (and optionally voice). There's no money spent if she invites you straight over
Not so fast.

You said..

"And you can smash at the end of the date (or during the date if she invites you straight over) or on date 2".


In your scenario..

1. Date first.
2. Maybe smash later.

or..

1. Second date.
2. Maybe smash later.


My scenario...

1. Sexual contact first.
2. Date later.

See the difference?

moreover, she's the one usually spending money on the wine you're drinking before you smash.
I'll believe it when I see it.

Most of you guys are just so happy to be on a date with a woman that you'll pay for dinner, drinks, Broadway show, band, juggling magician, mime show, hot balloon ride, and pony ride at the park.

It's not beta if you smash for 3 hours straight lmao.
That's a big if.

Do what works for you. I quoted your post for general education purposes. Readers can select whatever method works best for them at whatever level they are at.
Mode One (X) works best.
 
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