"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Football, a beta male hobby or a legit interest for men?

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I enjoy football but if you're profession isn't sports related or you're not making money from it..its more of a detriment since your not utilizing your time properly..it's about balance
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im a fan of Pook as much as the next guy. But cant a guy watch a little TV after a day of hard work?
Don't ask me. Just know a child's book has twice as much word diversity then nightly news.
 
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Moreover, any women who are fanatical about sports are damaged goods. You have been warned.
Fanatical is a subjective term. It is better that a girlfriend/wife isn't a regular sports fan.

A good portion of women watch the Super Bowl. A lot of those women have husbands and boyfriends though. If a woman is unattached on Super Bowl Sunday in a given year, she's not as likely to watch the Super Bowl. Unattached women also rarely go to Super Bowl parties.

The World Series (pro baseball), NBA Finals (pro basketball), and Stanley Cup Finals (pro hockey) are Best of 7 series, unlike the one game Super Bowl, NCAA Basketball Championship, or an NCAA Football bowl game. Women are more likely to watch the one game championship things than multiple games in a Best of 7 series. The women who might watch 2-3 games of a 7 game series likely already have husband and boyfriends. I can't imagine many women who are not in relationships at a given moment watching multiple games in a 6 or 7 game Best of 7 series.

There are always rumors that more babies are born 9-10 months in a local area after a local team wins a sportsball championship. Here are examples of those stories, as one is related to the Philadelphia Eagles winning the 2017-18 NFL season Super Bowl and one is related to the Chicago Cubs winning the 2016 World Series.



An academic study was done in 2017 about the phenomenon of a birth rate increase after a championship. There is no evidence to support it.


The typical unattached guy doesn't get laid due to the local team winning a championship and I doubt the typical unmarried guy in an LTR is getting laid due to it either. Maybe some boring married couples might have sex if both are into that local team or there are 2 alums from the same college and that college wins a basketball or football championship.
 

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Wouldn't it be great if they spent that much time and put their efforts into sh*t that really mattered? Don't worry, they'll all be back drinking Bud Lights at their circle jerks and obsessing over people that do not care about any of them. At all.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wouldn't it be great if they spent that much time and put their efforts into sh*t that really mattered?
You can say the same about the athletes. Mere gladiators when Rome is falling once again.
 

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It was a great game with an anti-climactic ending. Looks like Mahomes is well on his way towards becoming GOAT.
GOAT QB and GOAT Muppet. Dude has definite crossover appeal, got to give him that.



Legit question: When you're both red and green, is every day Christmas?
 
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I guess I should have worded that different. What I meant was that you shouldn't make it a date, like "this thursday I want to watch the game with you."
I know this is old but I tend to prefer to date women who like watching sports. That way I can watch all the sports I want with no issue.
 

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Watching football is very cringe for me. The whole time I can't stop thinking about how the retard players are giving themselves brain injuries just so that smarter people can have a bit of entertainment to watch on Sunday.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Watching football is very cringe for me. The whole time I can't stop thinking about how the retard players are giving themselves brain injuries just so that smarter people can have a bit of entertainment to watch on Sunday.
It's mostly the linemen and tight ends who are dumb. You need some intelligence to play QB, receiver, linebacker, and defensive backfield. If you're just hitting dudes for the most part you can be dumb as a rock.
 

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I spent so much money travelling the UK and Europe watching football (soccer) over the years that I've kind of become drained to it.

I know it's a different sport and culture, but there are still similarities with fanatical, committed and sometimes over the top fans.
 

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It's mostly the linemen and tight ends who are dumb. You need some intelligence to play QB, receiver, linebacker, and defensive backfield. If you're just hitting dudes for the most part you can be dumb as a rock.
Can’t feel too bad. They get paid a **** ton of money for playing a game.
 

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Can’t feel too bad. They get paid a **** ton of money for playing a game.
Some of the injuries sustained in football can be life altering, so that stinks.

Weekend warriors who never played NCAA or professional sports can deal with orthopedic type injuries from even non-contact sports like swimming or tennis. Those orthopedic injuries can result in surgeries and unpleasant physical therapy visits.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can’t feel too bad. They get paid a **** ton of money for playing a game.
Yeah, at the expense of all the beta cvcks who fund them blindly. Their "something better to do" is getting into shootouts and cocaine binges in South Beach. Can't blame them for it either, especially with all that immunity they are given by crusty, old, MFs.
 

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Yeah, at the expense of all the beta cvcks who fund them blindly. Their "something better to do" is getting into shootouts and cocaine binges in South Beach. Can't blame them for it either, especially with all that immunity they are given by crusty, old, MFs.
Or getting sh1tfaced drunk and showing up belligerently at your in-laws
 

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I love football in the sense that I love to watch the game as I grew up playing it and was a fan. Plus, when I was in NYC, it was great to rub it in the faces of Penn St alumni that you went to an SEC school that actually wins titles. However, there is a level to this. If you are watching casually for fun, then you are not a loser unless you burn your entire Saturday watching football. After being hit with a nasty health scare that made it tough for me to game, I spent my Saturdays and Sundays watching football.

However, overall, anything outside of watching football at home or maybe at a bar is a waste of time.

If you go to a game, you notice how most people there are usually married with kids or settled down. The typical fan is a beta male that works the 9 to 5 corporate job, fattens himself up on beer from happy hours, gets obsessed with celebrity gossip, and then gets jealous of the single guys living it up and getting laid.

Even for myself, I have usually watched football and sports in my darkest moments in life. If I had not been hit with a nasty health scare, I would be out talking to girls, walking on my own business, or doing something important and worthwhile than watching football. I find that people who religiously follow sports are usually just the kinds of people who have thrown the towel in on life and need someone to vicariously live through.
Uh, I guess 1982 & 1986 don't count? :rolleyes:
 

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This question can be asked of any competition in the culture. Mother Nature is above all, competitive, and indeed, once early humans figured out that a thing bone could be wielded as a club, or a big rock could be thrown like a cannonball, etc., they fought other humans to control land (from which everything, including poon, follows). Even in the very narrow slice of culture of PUA (or whatever it is now :rolleyes:), strong themes are "be the best you you can be" and have a "dominant frame" my AMOGing your rivals, and thus its kernel is competition.

Watching folks who are at the best in their craft has entertainment value because they are so elite. I could sing Frank Sinatra's songs, but he was a better singer than I have ever been, so I like listening to him; perhaps if Frank were still around, he might like the way that I can determine the kernel of a particular aspect of Black Pill (i.e., "it's OVER for ~Cels"). :) I was once a somewhat competitive weightlifter, so I love watching the men who excel at it,, etc.

And oh, getting back to our ancestors, pulling for one's tribe to win whatever war they were involved in was not just entertainment value - it was a matter of life or death (or freedom or slavery, etc.), and thus we have evolved to have a strong desire to pull for our team (however we determine who our "team" is). The game of football specifically (be it "world football" - soccer - or American football, or even soccerish games like basketball or hockey) is very well tuned in to this tribal war paradigm as the object of the game is to physically overwhelm the opponent and score a goal, which is akin to raping the other tribe's women (and similarly being scored on is akin to having one's women raped, etc.).

Here is a good illustration of how war & sexual conquest are so intimately (pun NOT intended) related.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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