PoppedCollars
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Problem solved.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Follow up on LTR break up
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sad story bro. I feel ya.
Only thing I can say is, Move On...
I know thats the last thing most want after a breakup with a LTR, but its for the best man...
Chances are she will do one of two things.
1. She comes back, but the relationships lasts max 3 months. LEading to another time of sadness etc for you.
2. She doesn't come back, she likes her freedom to do what she wants with whoever without responding to anyone.
Once again soory man!
Only thing I can say is, Move On...
I know thats the last thing most want after a breakup with a LTR, but its for the best man...
Chances are she will do one of two things.
1. She comes back, but the relationships lasts max 3 months. LEading to another time of sadness etc for you.
2. She doesn't come back, she likes her freedom to do what she wants with whoever without responding to anyone.
Once again soory man!
NewMan
Master Don Juan
All of her lines are classic womanesse.
She's done with you.
Move on.
She's done with you.
Move on.
PoppedCollars
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She just called...we talked for about 30 minutes. She wanted to know what I was thinking so I let her have it. When I called her out on "friends=not interested sexually" she said it's obvious that she's still attracted to me but she's just overwhelemed and confused . Said she didn't know what she wanted. We then just shot **** for a while...she seemed pretty sad/down the entire time.
And for me to call her back as soon as I got home
And for me to call her back as soon as I got home
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Overwhelmed and confused is basically ******** for saying, "I'm no longer interested in you, but I want to make it look like I'm complicated so I don't come off as a *****, which I probably am."Originally posted by PoppedCollars
She just called...we talked for about 30 minutes. She wanted to know what I was thinking so I let her have it. When I called her out on "friends=not interested sexually" she said it's obvious that she's still attracted to me but she's just overwhelemed and confused . Said she didn't know what she wanted. We then just shot **** for a while...she seemed pretty sad/down the entire time.
And for me to call her back as soon as I got home
Desdinova
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A story about two women *trying* to break up.
That's nice. You're gonna wait around for her, even though you were the one who decided to end it the night before.
In other words, she'll be dating again after she's finished with you. She's trying to let you down nicely. Women enjoy letting their emotions fade away when they get out of relationship. They can't handle sudden endings because they hate stewing in their emotions. You're just giving into the slow ending of this relationship because you don't like the emotional pain either.
Cut contact with her completely. Trust me, if you don't cut all contact, it's going to get worse and take even longer to get better. She'll be fvcking another guy in no time, and you'll be waiting for her to want a LTR with you. Time heals all wounds.
DeathDealer
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I consider all breakups permanent and it's up to the woman to crawl back to me. It's okay if she doesn't, cause I'll go for other women.
Kaine
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You obviously need to be fcuked in the a$$ with the reality stick, I don't think anything but massive traumatic pain is going wake you up. You already knew what to do, but instead you grew a pu$$y.
You crashed and in her eyes became a whimpering supplicative wussy girl. I was right, you didn't need your stuff, the ulterior motive I predicted was there.
Lets reiterate from the point where it all goes to stinky sh1t so others don't follow suit. Walking away was good, these were not::
a) He calls back at the club to "talk" straight after he gets home. Desperate.
b) He makes an appointment to "get his stuff" Smells desperate.
c) He brought a frikkin flower when getting his stuff?! Reaking of desperation
d) He apologizes. Crown this king of desperation.
e) He has a "discussion", more like "Please tell me why you don't like me, here are my balls". Falls off desperation scale
f) He rewards her with kisses and cuddles. Desperation has now achieved apocalyptic levels.
g) Obsess and plan for the Winter over this girl. Proceeds to step into purgatory.
Her telling you indirectly she wants to keep you as a emotional tampon and backup while she sleeps around? Priceless.
Thanks for sharing so others don't make the same mistakes.
Alright enjoy the pain.
Kaine
You crashed and in her eyes became a whimpering supplicative wussy girl. I was right, you didn't need your stuff, the ulterior motive I predicted was there.
Lets reiterate from the point where it all goes to stinky sh1t so others don't follow suit. Walking away was good, these were not::
a) He calls back at the club to "talk" straight after he gets home. Desperate.
b) He makes an appointment to "get his stuff" Smells desperate.
c) He brought a frikkin flower when getting his stuff?! Reaking of desperation
d) He apologizes. Crown this king of desperation.
e) He has a "discussion", more like "Please tell me why you don't like me, here are my balls". Falls off desperation scale
f) He rewards her with kisses and cuddles. Desperation has now achieved apocalyptic levels.
g) Obsess and plan for the Winter over this girl. Proceeds to step into purgatory.
Her telling you indirectly she wants to keep you as a emotional tampon and backup while she sleeps around? Priceless.
Thanks for sharing so others don't make the same mistakes.
Alright enjoy the pain.
Kaine