PoppedCollars
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Follow up on LTR break up
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sad story bro. I feel ya.
Only thing I can say is, Move On...
I know thats the last thing most want after a breakup with a LTR, but its for the best man...
Chances are she will do one of two things.
1. She comes back, but the relationships lasts max 3 months. LEading to another time of sadness etc for you.
2. She doesn't come back, she likes her freedom to do what she wants with whoever without responding to anyone.
Once again soory man!
Only thing I can say is, Move On...
I know thats the last thing most want after a breakup with a LTR, but its for the best man...
Chances are she will do one of two things.
1. She comes back, but the relationships lasts max 3 months. LEading to another time of sadness etc for you.
2. She doesn't come back, she likes her freedom to do what she wants with whoever without responding to anyone.
Once again soory man!
NewMan
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All of her lines are classic womanesse.
She's done with you.
Move on.
She's done with you.
Move on.
PoppedCollars
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She just called...we talked for about 30 minutes. She wanted to know what I was thinking so I let her have it. When I called her out on "friends=not interested sexually" she said it's obvious that she's still attracted to me but she's just overwhelemed and confused . Said she didn't know what she wanted. We then just shot **** for a while...she seemed pretty sad/down the entire time.
And for me to call her back as soon as I got home
And for me to call her back as soon as I got home
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Overwhelmed and confused is basically ******** for saying, "I'm no longer interested in you, but I want to make it look like I'm complicated so I don't come off as a *****, which I probably am."Originally posted by PoppedCollars
She just called...we talked for about 30 minutes. She wanted to know what I was thinking so I let her have it. When I called her out on "friends=not interested sexually" she said it's obvious that she's still attracted to me but she's just overwhelemed and confused . Said she didn't know what she wanted. We then just shot **** for a while...she seemed pretty sad/down the entire time.
And for me to call her back as soon as I got home
Desdinova
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A story about two women *trying* to break up.
That's nice. You're gonna wait around for her, even though you were the one who decided to end it the night before.
In other words, she'll be dating again after she's finished with you. She's trying to let you down nicely. Women enjoy letting their emotions fade away when they get out of relationship. They can't handle sudden endings because they hate stewing in their emotions. You're just giving into the slow ending of this relationship because you don't like the emotional pain either.
Cut contact with her completely. Trust me, if you don't cut all contact, it's going to get worse and take even longer to get better. She'll be fvcking another guy in no time, and you'll be waiting for her to want a LTR with you. Time heals all wounds.
DeathDealer
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I consider all breakups permanent and it's up to the woman to crawl back to me. It's okay if she doesn't, cause I'll go for other women.
Kaine
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You obviously need to be fcuked in the a$$ with the reality stick, I don't think anything but massive traumatic pain is going wake you up. You already knew what to do, but instead you grew a pu$$y.
You crashed and in her eyes became a whimpering supplicative wussy girl. I was right, you didn't need your stuff, the ulterior motive I predicted was there.
Lets reiterate from the point where it all goes to stinky sh1t so others don't follow suit. Walking away was good, these were not::
a) He calls back at the club to "talk" straight after he gets home. Desperate.
b) He makes an appointment to "get his stuff" Smells desperate.
c) He brought a frikkin flower when getting his stuff?! Reaking of desperation
d) He apologizes. Crown this king of desperation.
e) He has a "discussion", more like "Please tell me why you don't like me, here are my balls". Falls off desperation scale
f) He rewards her with kisses and cuddles. Desperation has now achieved apocalyptic levels.
g) Obsess and plan for the Winter over this girl. Proceeds to step into purgatory.
Her telling you indirectly she wants to keep you as a emotional tampon and backup while she sleeps around? Priceless.
Thanks for sharing so others don't make the same mistakes.
Alright enjoy the pain.
Kaine
You crashed and in her eyes became a whimpering supplicative wussy girl. I was right, you didn't need your stuff, the ulterior motive I predicted was there.
Lets reiterate from the point where it all goes to stinky sh1t so others don't follow suit. Walking away was good, these were not::
a) He calls back at the club to "talk" straight after he gets home. Desperate.
b) He makes an appointment to "get his stuff" Smells desperate.
c) He brought a frikkin flower when getting his stuff?! Reaking of desperation
d) He apologizes. Crown this king of desperation.
e) He has a "discussion", more like "Please tell me why you don't like me, here are my balls". Falls off desperation scale
f) He rewards her with kisses and cuddles. Desperation has now achieved apocalyptic levels.
g) Obsess and plan for the Winter over this girl. Proceeds to step into purgatory.
Her telling you indirectly she wants to keep you as a emotional tampon and backup while she sleeps around? Priceless.
Thanks for sharing so others don't make the same mistakes.
Alright enjoy the pain.
Kaine