Hi guys...I am getting lots of flritatious behaviour from women, especially in the eye contact (lots of intense looks and then submissive behaviour) but cannot seem to close numbers...I am 45 and in really good shape both physically and mentally...any ideas to what is going on...I am just a little confused.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
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Can you be more specific? Are you approaching these women and what kind of signals are you getting?Flatnose said:Hi guys...I am getting lots of flritatious behaviour from women, especially in the eye contact (lots of intense looks and then submissive behaviour) but cannot seem to close numbers...I am 45 and in really good shape both physically and mentally...any ideas to what is going on...I am just a little confused.
BTW Im also 45 and in great shape.
Casual approaches, one was a woman at work another a barmaid where I regularly drink. Really cool sexual tension deep lingering eye contact then dropped eyes, they initiate contact then seem to back off when I suggest coffee or getting there number. Its doing my head in!gaspipe said:Can you be more specific? Are you approaching these women and what kind of signals are you getting?
BTW Im also 45 and in great shape.
Flatnose said:Casual approaches, one was a woman at work another a barmaid where I regularly drink. Really cool sexual tension deep lingering eye contact then dropped eyes, they initiate contact then seem to back off when I suggest coffee or getting there number. Its doing my head in!
If they dont give you the digits its not a good sign. These women may well be attracted to you at some level but most likely they are either committed to someone else or are just seeking some type of validation or are just bored and feel like flirting (some women are just flirtatious by nature).
Bottom line if a woman is truly interested she will be responsive to your advances.
Aye...had better get more approaches in then!gaspipe said:If they dont give you the digits its not a good sign. These women may well be attracted to you at some level but most likely they are either committed to someone else or are just seeking some type of validation or are just bored and feel like flirting (some women are just flirtatious by nature).
Bottom line if a woman is truly interested she will be responsive to your advances.
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Thats the spirit! When all is said and done it really is a numbers game. Its only a matter of time youll strike gold if you keep plugging away! (no pun intended).Flatnose said:Aye...had better get more approaches in then!