"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys...I am getting lots of flritatious behaviour from women, especially in the eye contact (lots of intense looks and then submissive behaviour) but cannot seem to close numbers...I am 45 and in really good shape both physically and mentally...any ideas to what is going on...I am just a little confused.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Flatnose said:
Hi guys...I am getting lots of flritatious behaviour from women, especially in the eye contact (lots of intense looks and then submissive behaviour) but cannot seem to close numbers...I am 45 and in really good shape both physically and mentally...any ideas to what is going on...I am just a little confused.
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Can you be more specific? Are you approaching these women and what kind of signals are you getting?

BTW Im also 45 and in great shape.
 
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gaspipe said:
Can you be more specific? Are you approaching these women and what kind of signals are you getting?

BTW Im also 45 and in great shape.
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Casual approaches, one was a woman at work another a barmaid where I regularly drink. Really cool sexual tension deep lingering eye contact then dropped eyes, they initiate contact then seem to back off when I suggest coffee or getting there number. Its doing my head in!
 
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Casual approaches, one was a woman at work another a barmaid where I regularly drink. Really cool sexual tension deep lingering eye contact then dropped eyes, they initiate contact then seem to back off when I suggest coffee or getting there number. Its doing my head in!
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If they dont give you the digits its not a good sign. These women may well be attracted to you at some level but most likely they are either committed to someone else or are just seeking some type of validation or are just bored and feel like flirting (some women are just flirtatious by nature).

Bottom line if a woman is truly interested she will be responsive to your advances.
 
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If they dont give you the digits its not a good sign. These women may well be attracted to you at some level but most likely they are either committed to someone else or are just seeking some type of validation or are just bored and feel like flirting (some women are just flirtatious by nature).

Bottom line if a woman is truly interested she will be responsive to your advances.
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Aye...had better get more approaches in then!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Aye...had better get more approaches in then!
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Thats the spirit! When all is said and done it really is a numbers game. Its only a matter of time youll strike gold if you keep plugging away! (no pun intended).
 
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