Hi guys...I am getting lots of flritatious behaviour from women, especially in the eye contact (lots of intense looks and then submissive behaviour) but cannot seem to close numbers...I am 45 and in really good shape both physically and mentally...any ideas to what is going on...I am just a little confused.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Can you be more specific? Are you approaching these women and what kind of signals are you getting?Flatnose said:Hi guys...I am getting lots of flritatious behaviour from women, especially in the eye contact (lots of intense looks and then submissive behaviour) but cannot seem to close numbers...I am 45 and in really good shape both physically and mentally...any ideas to what is going on...I am just a little confused.
BTW Im also 45 and in great shape.
Casual approaches, one was a woman at work another a barmaid where I regularly drink. Really cool sexual tension deep lingering eye contact then dropped eyes, they initiate contact then seem to back off when I suggest coffee or getting there number. Its doing my head in!gaspipe said:Can you be more specific? Are you approaching these women and what kind of signals are you getting?
BTW Im also 45 and in great shape.
Flatnose said:Casual approaches, one was a woman at work another a barmaid where I regularly drink. Really cool sexual tension deep lingering eye contact then dropped eyes, they initiate contact then seem to back off when I suggest coffee or getting there number. Its doing my head in!
If they dont give you the digits its not a good sign. These women may well be attracted to you at some level but most likely they are either committed to someone else or are just seeking some type of validation or are just bored and feel like flirting (some women are just flirtatious by nature).
Bottom line if a woman is truly interested she will be responsive to your advances.
Aye...had better get more approaches in then!gaspipe said:If they dont give you the digits its not a good sign. These women may well be attracted to you at some level but most likely they are either committed to someone else or are just seeking some type of validation or are just bored and feel like flirting (some women are just flirtatious by nature).
Bottom line if a woman is truly interested she will be responsive to your advances.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thats the spirit! When all is said and done it really is a numbers game. Its only a matter of time youll strike gold if you keep plugging away! (no pun intended).Flatnose said:Aye...had better get more approaches in then!