"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you think of a girl who, with the excuse of walking behind you, rubs her breasts on your back/shoulder?

It's not the first time this has happened to me, and it happened yesterday with a girl we just met while we were working, the beauty is that we were outdoors and there was plenty of space to pass

I'm not looking for a real answer, because I personally see it as a positive and not casual thing

I just want to know if this has happened to you too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dr.Suave said:
Is she hot? If you dont care much about your current job, smash her.
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it was a particular situation I will try to explain it briefly

I live in Italy and I'm close to the border with France, and through an employment agency I happen to work in France as a laborer / handyman,

yesterday I went to help a company that rents materials for parties this girl works there and she is very beautiful,

I speak French quite well but it is still difficult for me to interact so I decided to focus on body language and through looks and expressions I made her understand that I was intrigued,

during the day we had a chat and I teased her, when I could with an excuse I tried physical contact and towards the end of the day at work finished this thing happened

, we live very far away, probably 100km so I didn't want to continue things, however I will see you on Monday
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OP practice your French. I assume you know to stay away from Italian women unless they can prove high interest.

Speaking from my experience with French women in Montreal and Italian women in America, the French girl will seductively hold eye contact with you the first time you look at her, and the Italian woman will attempt to suck your soul dry. One is better than the other.

p.s. yes, women do this with their boobs.
 
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CollegeMan22 said:
This is a French women. You know the French……
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Educate yourself, my friend. Italian women are the worst. The worst that French dude can do is stab you with his baguette.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BillyPilgrim said:
Educate yourself, my friend. Italian women are the worst. The worst that French dude can do is stab you with his baguette.
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Most of the Italian girls in my experience and others are very pretentious and sometimes they make the desire to seduce them go away, unfortunately I think it's a matter of society
 
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stringpuller said:
Doesnt matter. Whether the accepted social distance is 10ft or 2 ft.
Its nature. Its not usually an accident. Especially tittiess
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It's never by accident, and most of the time it's with a straightforward intent. But certain cultures do like to play hard to get and Italian women tend to tease.
 
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