"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What do you think of a girl who, with the excuse of walking behind you, rubs her breasts on your back/shoulder?

It's not the first time this has happened to me, and it happened yesterday with a girl we just met while we were working, the beauty is that we were outdoors and there was plenty of space to pass

I'm not looking for a real answer, because I personally see it as a positive and not casual thing

I just want to know if this has happened to you too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dr.Suave said:
Is she hot? If you dont care much about your current job, smash her.
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it was a particular situation I will try to explain it briefly

I live in Italy and I'm close to the border with France, and through an employment agency I happen to work in France as a laborer / handyman,

yesterday I went to help a company that rents materials for parties this girl works there and she is very beautiful,

I speak French quite well but it is still difficult for me to interact so I decided to focus on body language and through looks and expressions I made her understand that I was intrigued,

during the day we had a chat and I teased her, when I could with an excuse I tried physical contact and towards the end of the day at work finished this thing happened

, we live very far away, probably 100km so I didn't want to continue things, however I will see you on Monday
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OP practice your French. I assume you know to stay away from Italian women unless they can prove high interest.

Speaking from my experience with French women in Montreal and Italian women in America, the French girl will seductively hold eye contact with you the first time you look at her, and the Italian woman will attempt to suck your soul dry. One is better than the other.

p.s. yes, women do this with their boobs.
 
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CollegeMan22 said:
This is a French women. You know the French……
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Educate yourself, my friend. Italian women are the worst. The worst that French dude can do is stab you with his baguette.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BillyPilgrim said:
Educate yourself, my friend. Italian women are the worst. The worst that French dude can do is stab you with his baguette.
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Most of the Italian girls in my experience and others are very pretentious and sometimes they make the desire to seduce them go away, unfortunately I think it's a matter of society
 
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stringpuller said:
Doesnt matter. Whether the accepted social distance is 10ft or 2 ft.
Its nature. Its not usually an accident. Especially tittiess
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It's never by accident, and most of the time it's with a straightforward intent. But certain cultures do like to play hard to get and Italian women tend to tease.
 
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