"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you think of a girl who, with the excuse of walking behind you, rubs her breasts on your back/shoulder?

It's not the first time this has happened to me, and it happened yesterday with a girl we just met while we were working, the beauty is that we were outdoors and there was plenty of space to pass

I'm not looking for a real answer, because I personally see it as a positive and not casual thing

I just want to know if this has happened to you too
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dr.Suave said:
Is she hot? If you dont care much about your current job, smash her.
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it was a particular situation I will try to explain it briefly

I live in Italy and I'm close to the border with France, and through an employment agency I happen to work in France as a laborer / handyman,

yesterday I went to help a company that rents materials for parties this girl works there and she is very beautiful,

I speak French quite well but it is still difficult for me to interact so I decided to focus on body language and through looks and expressions I made her understand that I was intrigued,

during the day we had a chat and I teased her, when I could with an excuse I tried physical contact and towards the end of the day at work finished this thing happened

, we live very far away, probably 100km so I didn't want to continue things, however I will see you on Monday
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OP practice your French. I assume you know to stay away from Italian women unless they can prove high interest.

Speaking from my experience with French women in Montreal and Italian women in America, the French girl will seductively hold eye contact with you the first time you look at her, and the Italian woman will attempt to suck your soul dry. One is better than the other.

p.s. yes, women do this with their boobs.
 
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CollegeMan22 said:
This is a French women. You know the French……
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Educate yourself, my friend. Italian women are the worst. The worst that French dude can do is stab you with his baguette.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BillyPilgrim said:
Educate yourself, my friend. Italian women are the worst. The worst that French dude can do is stab you with his baguette.
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Most of the Italian girls in my experience and others are very pretentious and sometimes they make the desire to seduce them go away, unfortunately I think it's a matter of society
 
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stringpuller said:
Doesnt matter. Whether the accepted social distance is 10ft or 2 ft.
Its nature. Its not usually an accident. Especially tittiess
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It's never by accident, and most of the time it's with a straightforward intent. But certain cultures do like to play hard to get and Italian women tend to tease.
 
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