Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So true. Even though women are emotional creatures, just end it nicely with a ok no problem take care and forget her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
We do not want to be desperate to get in panties !
I strive to make the most efficient use of my time. Experience tells me that far more often than not, chasing these women or giving them chances will eventually lead to disappointment. But if a particular woman is worth it to you then go for it. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I can handle being alone for a few nights though. Compromising my self respect with someone inconsiderate of my time is not worth it to me. Says a lot about their character. A lot of dudes on here complaining about women getting stupid after weeks or months ir years can look back at red flags like this and smack their forehead for ignoring it because they didn't want to be alone and hold out for better quality
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Do you flake when you're really interested in going out with someone while giving no response, valid excuse, or counter offer if you can't make it after plans have been made?
This is the correct answer imo, the fact she's still texting means she hasn't written you off. There's nothing wrong with doing what marmel suggested, just tell her to make it up to you by coming over and cooking you a meal or something.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
