CMNILS87
Master Don Juan
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She’s keeping an orbiter on the hook. I’ve had thst happen multiple times. This isn’t rocket science. She’s texting 3 others dudes right now too for the attention
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
First date flake. I haven't responded.
- Thread starter RalphaWreck
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i do agree with this but its a catch 22 i havent read all the replies
,women are not courteous creatures they do not give a fck if they let you down
however you can turn the same woman into worshipping you once dated and made love well to
OP use common sense if after 2 attempts shes still contacting you like your partners but shes flaked on two dates...kick her to the kerb