Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Female Wingman?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Livingitup22
Don Juan
A wingman of the opposite sex is gold. I've been on both ends of the situation and it works wonders! Just make sure that your friend of the opposite sex is fairly confident and motivated to get you some action.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
OK a few days ago i'd have been like "no way, you're full of ****"... but after my weekend all I can say is "ooops." My wingman and I hooked up... Guess we weren't doing a good enough job winging for each other?
thissucks003
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Hey Sexy,
Sounds like a great idea. I have seen many times when a group of guys and gals all go out as friends that there is more than enough opportunities for a guy and a gal can help each other out in a group situation. Kick azz!
I wish you were in the mid-west, I would go out and sarge with you any day.
TS
Sounds like a great idea. I have seen many times when a group of guys and gals all go out as friends that there is more than enough opportunities for a guy and a gal can help each other out in a group situation. Kick azz!
I wish you were in the mid-west, I would go out and sarge with you any day.
TS
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, and it opens a LOT of interesting options if both the HB and your Chick'nWing are willing
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wild at heart
Don Juan
Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha haha.......... Come one Wild at Heart... don't deny it... you were TOTALLY SWEATING that obese chick with the lazy eye!Originally posted by Wild at heart
Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.
Walden
Master Don Juan
I disagree my best friend is a lesbian , and we split em , any that look gay or willing to "experiment" she gets , any that look girly or straight , I get.
Wingb*tches are the money.
Wingb*tches are the money.
That sounds like a great idea. Not sure if it'd be worth it for both sides, but i'd definitely like to try it out. What would be especially cool is if the female wingman was bi, so then we could do all sorts of freaky things with the girls we meet
P.S. Malibu, if i'm ever in NYC, you're gonna hear from me
P.S. Malibu, if i'm ever in NYC, you're gonna hear from me
elvis aint dead yet
Senior Don Juan
I used to have a friend who was a lesbian.. She was cool to hang out with cause she always tried to hook me up or just comment on the girls i might have been interested in.
It was fun times, but we both moved away, jobs, school, life, etc, but it was some fun times.
I agree if you go out with a group of people, male and female alike, it might work wonders for you.
A friend of mine, his gf, she was cool, when a group of us went out to a club, she'd keep asking me, "do you like this girl, that girl, etc. So when there is a group, it's cool.
The problem i have with the typical wingman, is usually, it would be me and a friend.
If it's me and one chic, who is a friend, it never really did anything for me.
Either the other girls already thought i was taken, or the female friend and I would do are things and then she'd get approached my tons of guys. Sometimes she spent entire nights with one or two guys,
all i'm saying is, if your friend is a HB, it's gonna be hard to get her to hook you up, because, most likely, she wants to hook up as well.
Just think, you and your boy go to a club, you either "take one for the team" or you both try to find some hot chics to talk to.
Maybe one, both, or none score, but thats what you do.
If you go to a club with a HB, I'm sure she doesn't want to spend time talking to girls you want to hook up as I'm sure you don't want to spend time with guys she wants to flirt with.
It might work once in a while, but if your friend is a HB, believe me, it's really a waste of time, it's just like going out by yourself.
If you friend is one of those girls, not ugly by no means, but just an average chic, then i can see some teamwork, otherwise, what guy wants to talk to other guys all night.
And what hot girl wants to talk to other girls all night.
It was fun times, but we both moved away, jobs, school, life, etc, but it was some fun times.
I agree if you go out with a group of people, male and female alike, it might work wonders for you.
A friend of mine, his gf, she was cool, when a group of us went out to a club, she'd keep asking me, "do you like this girl, that girl, etc. So when there is a group, it's cool.
The problem i have with the typical wingman, is usually, it would be me and a friend.
If it's me and one chic, who is a friend, it never really did anything for me.
Either the other girls already thought i was taken, or the female friend and I would do are things and then she'd get approached my tons of guys. Sometimes she spent entire nights with one or two guys,
all i'm saying is, if your friend is a HB, it's gonna be hard to get her to hook you up, because, most likely, she wants to hook up as well.
Just think, you and your boy go to a club, you either "take one for the team" or you both try to find some hot chics to talk to.
Maybe one, both, or none score, but thats what you do.
If you go to a club with a HB, I'm sure she doesn't want to spend time talking to girls you want to hook up as I'm sure you don't want to spend time with guys she wants to flirt with.
It might work once in a while, but if your friend is a HB, believe me, it's really a waste of time, it's just like going out by yourself.
If you friend is one of those girls, not ugly by no means, but just an average chic, then i can see some teamwork, otherwise, what guy wants to talk to other guys all night.
And what hot girl wants to talk to other girls all night.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.