Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwOriginally posted by MoAF
Sexy... I've read a few of your posts, I must say you apear to be quite the fun, interesting, down to earth girl, its so refreshing.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwOriginally posted by MoAF
Sexy... I've read a few of your posts, I must say you apear to be quite the fun, interesting, down to earth girl, its so refreshing.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
OK a few days ago i'd have been like "no way, you're full of ****"... but after my weekend all I can say is "ooops." My wingman and I hooked up... Guess we weren't doing a good enough job winging for each other?Originally posted by MoAF
I'd be worried with a female wingman... I'm a good looking fela and I wouldn't want to hurt the girl winging. Thats why I don't have female friends, girls are usually attracted to me and any time I spend with them can be construde as attraction.
Yeah, and it opens a LOT of interesting options if both the HB and your Chick'nWing are willingOriginally posted by Livingitup22
A wingman of the opposite sex is gold. I've been on both ends of the situation and it works wonders! Just make sure that your friend of the opposite sex is fairly confident and motivated to get you some action.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha haha.......... Come one Wild at Heart... don't deny it... you were TOTALLY SWEATING that obese chick with the lazy eye!Originally posted by Wild at heart
Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.