Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwOriginally posted by MoAF
Sexy... I've read a few of your posts, I must say you apear to be quite the fun, interesting, down to earth girl, its so refreshing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwOriginally posted by MoAF
Sexy... I've read a few of your posts, I must say you apear to be quite the fun, interesting, down to earth girl, its so refreshing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
OK a few days ago i'd have been like "no way, you're full of ****"... but after my weekend all I can say is "ooops." My wingman and I hooked up... Guess we weren't doing a good enough job winging for each other?Originally posted by MoAF
I'd be worried with a female wingman... I'm a good looking fela and I wouldn't want to hurt the girl winging. Thats why I don't have female friends, girls are usually attracted to me and any time I spend with them can be construde as attraction.
Yeah, and it opens a LOT of interesting options if both the HB and your Chick'nWing are willingOriginally posted by Livingitup22
A wingman of the opposite sex is gold. I've been on both ends of the situation and it works wonders! Just make sure that your friend of the opposite sex is fairly confident and motivated to get you some action.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha haha.......... Come one Wild at Heart... don't deny it... you were TOTALLY SWEATING that obese chick with the lazy eye!Originally posted by Wild at heart
Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.