"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Female Wingman?

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Originally posted by MoAF
Sexy... I've read a few of your posts, I must say you apear to be quite the fun, interesting, down to earth girl, its so refreshing.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A wingman of the opposite sex is gold. I've been on both ends of the situation and it works wonders! Just make sure that your friend of the opposite sex is fairly confident and motivated to get you some action.
 

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Originally posted by MoAF
I'd be worried with a female wingman... I'm a good looking fela and I wouldn't want to hurt the girl winging. Thats why I don't have female friends, girls are usually attracted to me and any time I spend with them can be construde as attraction.
OK a few days ago i'd have been like "no way, you're full of ****"... but after my weekend all I can say is "ooops." My wingman and I hooked up... Guess we weren't doing a good enough job winging for each other? :D
 

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Hey Sexy,

Sounds like a great idea. I have seen many times when a group of guys and gals all go out as friends that there is more than enough opportunities for a guy and a gal can help each other out in a group situation. Kick azz!

I wish you were in the mid-west, I would go out and sarge with you any day.

TS
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Livingitup22
A wingman of the opposite sex is gold. I've been on both ends of the situation and it works wonders! Just make sure that your friend of the opposite sex is fairly confident and motivated to get you some action.
Yeah, and it opens a LOT of interesting options if both the HB and your Chick'nWing are willing ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.

But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss. :p
 

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Originally posted by Wild at heart
Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.

But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss. :p
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha haha.......... Come one Wild at Heart... don't deny it... you were TOTALLY SWEATING that obese chick with the lazy eye! :D
 

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I disagree my best friend is a lesbian , and we split em , any that look gay or willing to "experiment" she gets , any that look girly or straight , I get.

Wingb*tches are the money.
 

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That sounds like a great idea. Not sure if it'd be worth it for both sides, but i'd definitely like to try it out. What would be especially cool is if the female wingman was bi, so then we could do all sorts of freaky things with the girls we meet ;)

P.S. Malibu, if i'm ever in NYC, you're gonna hear from me :D
 

elvis aint dead yet

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I used to have a friend who was a lesbian.. She was cool to hang out with cause she always tried to hook me up or just comment on the girls i might have been interested in.

It was fun times, but we both moved away, jobs, school, life, etc, but it was some fun times.

I agree if you go out with a group of people, male and female alike, it might work wonders for you.

A friend of mine, his gf, she was cool, when a group of us went out to a club, she'd keep asking me, "do you like this girl, that girl, etc. So when there is a group, it's cool.

The problem i have with the typical wingman, is usually, it would be me and a friend.

If it's me and one chic, who is a friend, it never really did anything for me.

Either the other girls already thought i was taken, or the female friend and I would do are things and then she'd get approached my tons of guys. Sometimes she spent entire nights with one or two guys,

all i'm saying is, if your friend is a HB, it's gonna be hard to get her to hook you up, because, most likely, she wants to hook up as well.

Just think, you and your boy go to a club, you either "take one for the team" or you both try to find some hot chics to talk to.

Maybe one, both, or none score, but thats what you do.

If you go to a club with a HB, I'm sure she doesn't want to spend time talking to girls you want to hook up as I'm sure you don't want to spend time with guys she wants to flirt with.

It might work once in a while, but if your friend is a HB, believe me, it's really a waste of time, it's just like going out by yourself.

If you friend is one of those girls, not ugly by no means, but just an average chic, then i can see some teamwork, otherwise, what guy wants to talk to other guys all night.

And what hot girl wants to talk to other girls all night.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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