Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Female Wingman?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Livingitup22
Don Juan
A wingman of the opposite sex is gold. I've been on both ends of the situation and it works wonders! Just make sure that your friend of the opposite sex is fairly confident and motivated to get you some action.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
OK a few days ago i'd have been like "no way, you're full of ****"... but after my weekend all I can say is "ooops." My wingman and I hooked up... Guess we weren't doing a good enough job winging for each other?
thissucks003
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Hey Sexy,
Sounds like a great idea. I have seen many times when a group of guys and gals all go out as friends that there is more than enough opportunities for a guy and a gal can help each other out in a group situation. Kick azz!
I wish you were in the mid-west, I would go out and sarge with you any day.
TS
Sounds like a great idea. I have seen many times when a group of guys and gals all go out as friends that there is more than enough opportunities for a guy and a gal can help each other out in a group situation. Kick azz!
I wish you were in the mid-west, I would go out and sarge with you any day.
TS
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, and it opens a LOT of interesting options if both the HB and your Chick'nWing are willing
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Wild at heart
Don Juan
Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha haha.......... Come one Wild at Heart... don't deny it... you were TOTALLY SWEATING that obese chick with the lazy eye!Originally posted by Wild at heart
Do NOT take Sexy Malibu winging with you..she picks the nastiest girls at the bar and then forces them on you.
But she buys you dinner too so its not a total loss.
Walden
Master Don Juan
I disagree my best friend is a lesbian , and we split em , any that look gay or willing to "experiment" she gets , any that look girly or straight , I get.
Wingb*tches are the money.
Wingb*tches are the money.
That sounds like a great idea. Not sure if it'd be worth it for both sides, but i'd definitely like to try it out. What would be especially cool is if the female wingman was bi, so then we could do all sorts of freaky things with the girls we meet
P.S. Malibu, if i'm ever in NYC, you're gonna hear from me
P.S. Malibu, if i'm ever in NYC, you're gonna hear from me
elvis aint dead yet
Senior Don Juan
I used to have a friend who was a lesbian.. She was cool to hang out with cause she always tried to hook me up or just comment on the girls i might have been interested in.
It was fun times, but we both moved away, jobs, school, life, etc, but it was some fun times.
I agree if you go out with a group of people, male and female alike, it might work wonders for you.
A friend of mine, his gf, she was cool, when a group of us went out to a club, she'd keep asking me, "do you like this girl, that girl, etc. So when there is a group, it's cool.
The problem i have with the typical wingman, is usually, it would be me and a friend.
If it's me and one chic, who is a friend, it never really did anything for me.
Either the other girls already thought i was taken, or the female friend and I would do are things and then she'd get approached my tons of guys. Sometimes she spent entire nights with one or two guys,
all i'm saying is, if your friend is a HB, it's gonna be hard to get her to hook you up, because, most likely, she wants to hook up as well.
Just think, you and your boy go to a club, you either "take one for the team" or you both try to find some hot chics to talk to.
Maybe one, both, or none score, but thats what you do.
If you go to a club with a HB, I'm sure she doesn't want to spend time talking to girls you want to hook up as I'm sure you don't want to spend time with guys she wants to flirt with.
It might work once in a while, but if your friend is a HB, believe me, it's really a waste of time, it's just like going out by yourself.
If you friend is one of those girls, not ugly by no means, but just an average chic, then i can see some teamwork, otherwise, what guy wants to talk to other guys all night.
And what hot girl wants to talk to other girls all night.
It was fun times, but we both moved away, jobs, school, life, etc, but it was some fun times.
I agree if you go out with a group of people, male and female alike, it might work wonders for you.
A friend of mine, his gf, she was cool, when a group of us went out to a club, she'd keep asking me, "do you like this girl, that girl, etc. So when there is a group, it's cool.
The problem i have with the typical wingman, is usually, it would be me and a friend.
If it's me and one chic, who is a friend, it never really did anything for me.
Either the other girls already thought i was taken, or the female friend and I would do are things and then she'd get approached my tons of guys. Sometimes she spent entire nights with one or two guys,
all i'm saying is, if your friend is a HB, it's gonna be hard to get her to hook you up, because, most likely, she wants to hook up as well.
Just think, you and your boy go to a club, you either "take one for the team" or you both try to find some hot chics to talk to.
Maybe one, both, or none score, but thats what you do.
If you go to a club with a HB, I'm sure she doesn't want to spend time talking to girls you want to hook up as I'm sure you don't want to spend time with guys she wants to flirt with.
It might work once in a while, but if your friend is a HB, believe me, it's really a waste of time, it's just like going out by yourself.
If you friend is one of those girls, not ugly by no means, but just an average chic, then i can see some teamwork, otherwise, what guy wants to talk to other guys all night.
And what hot girl wants to talk to other girls all night.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.