Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
had a question- how do you know when you are dealing with a female DJ- how do you know the girl you might be trying to play is in turn playing you as well?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
female dj signs
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
dj stands for don juan
IL stands for interest level
IL stands for interest level
Dukester
Master Don Juan
dont really think this is a tip- needs to be moved to the general forum...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
damn that was quick nocturnal
Dukester
Master Don Juan
basically all those games that females try to play w/ us- that is their form of DJ'ing.
Our general subgoal: to get women, and too weed out the ones we dont want.
we do it by trial and error, or by trial (as I say).
they do it by playing games w/ us. those stupid tests, those ways to make us give them constant attention, etc...
all those little games, and tricks, and tests they play on us- nothing but female DJ'ing. IMO
Dukester
Master Don Juan
cloud-
clean out your mailbox, so i can send you that pm, and help you w/ your question, then pm me again when you have
clean out your mailbox, so i can send you that pm, and help you w/ your question, then pm me again when you have
Soma
Banned
Girls are natural DJ's. Every day they are IN the game as guys constantly hit on them.
How do you recognize a female DJ? If she's even remotely attractive she's got game.
How do you recognize a female DJ? If she's even remotely attractive she's got game.
Women have been learning the game since they were little girls. As budding DJs, I have just been learning the rules to play the game back. I not too sure but I figure the goal is to get beneath their game and find out if your interested in them as a person (after the physical attraction has been established of course). I think that's why AFCs have such trouble because the female DJ game weeds them out before they have a chance to find out whats beneath. They are so glad that a women is actually talking to them that they have no idea they are being played and tested. This is my amateur DJ opinion, let me know if I've been misguided.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Desdinova
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This is very true. However, some women will take it much farther. Go out and pick up the book "The Rules: Time Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right". This book is a must for any DJ should they encounter a "Rules Girl"
iqqi
Master Don Juan
hmmmm...
i am a DJ when i am nonchalant. by not caring too much. when i am sure of myself, secure in my situation.
i am not a DJ when i care too much. when i am no longer sure, because instead of just caring about myself, someone else is very important to me. so therefor there is an instability, because you can't control another or what they might do. and then there is anxiety at times. AFCness. ugh.
i am a DJ when i am nonchalant. by not caring too much. when i am sure of myself, secure in my situation.
i am not a DJ when i care too much. when i am no longer sure, because instead of just caring about myself, someone else is very important to me. so therefor there is an instability, because you can't control another or what they might do. and then there is anxiety at times. AFCness. ugh.