"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One time I was on my way to her house and she texted me to come in when I got there and I got there and the door was open but I rang the bell away. Do you think I looked retarded there?
 

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No, he is being honest and reasonable. We have both given you good advice.

If you ask her about it youll look like the biggest chump. You will gain nothing and she gains everything. You will come across as jealous and needy and confirm her decision about breaking it off with you.

Walk away. Smile. Stay busy. Go find new chicks.

This one isnt worth your time or attention right now.
 

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One time I was on my way to her house and she texted me to come in when I got there and I got there and the door was open but I rang the bell away. Do you think I looked retarded there?
I think all of this talk about getting someone back that doesnt want to come back makes you look retarded.

JMHO
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I thought you said it's still possible?
And I said not to contact her too. And hours later you want to ask her if she is fvcking another guy.

Anything is possible. Its not possible if you chase her and dont walk away right now.

The best advice in the world is useless to deaf ears.
 

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And I said not to contact her too. And hours later you want to ask her if she is fvcking another guy.

Anything is possible. Its not possible if you chase her and dont walk away right now.

The best advice in the world is useless to deaf ears.
He's a troll...dont waste your breath...lol
 
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