marmel75
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No just the teller of truths people dont want to hear usually.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Feels like we don't have that much in common?
- Thread starter B0redandl0nely
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
B0redandl0nely
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**** you. I'm gonna get her back
B0redandl0nely
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One time I was on my way to her house and she texted me to come in when I got there and I got there and the door was open but I rang the bell away. Do you think I looked retarded there?
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No, he is being honest and reasonable. We have both given you good advice.
If you ask her about it youll look like the biggest chump. You will gain nothing and she gains everything. You will come across as jealous and needy and confirm her decision about breaking it off with you.
Walk away. Smile. Stay busy. Go find new chicks.
This one isnt worth your time or attention right now.
If you ask her about it youll look like the biggest chump. You will gain nothing and she gains everything. You will come across as jealous and needy and confirm her decision about breaking it off with you.
Walk away. Smile. Stay busy. Go find new chicks.
This one isnt worth your time or attention right now.
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I think all of this talk about getting someone back that doesnt want to come back makes you look retarded.
JMHO
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
marmel75
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Be gone troll. I banish you to the land of Trollia.
B0redandl0nely
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I thought you said it's still possible?
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And I said not to contact her too. And hours later you want to ask her if she is fvcking another guy.
Anything is possible. Its not possible if you chase her and dont walk away right now.
The best advice in the world is useless to deaf ears.
marmel75
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He's a troll...dont waste your breath...lol