"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One time I was on my way to her house and she texted me to come in when I got there and I got there and the door was open but I rang the bell away. Do you think I looked retarded there?
 

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No, he is being honest and reasonable. We have both given you good advice.

If you ask her about it youll look like the biggest chump. You will gain nothing and she gains everything. You will come across as jealous and needy and confirm her decision about breaking it off with you.

Walk away. Smile. Stay busy. Go find new chicks.

This one isnt worth your time or attention right now.
 

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One time I was on my way to her house and she texted me to come in when I got there and I got there and the door was open but I rang the bell away. Do you think I looked retarded there?
I think all of this talk about getting someone back that doesnt want to come back makes you look retarded.

JMHO
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I thought you said it's still possible?
And I said not to contact her too. And hours later you want to ask her if she is fvcking another guy.

Anything is possible. Its not possible if you chase her and dont walk away right now.

The best advice in the world is useless to deaf ears.
 

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And I said not to contact her too. And hours later you want to ask her if she is fvcking another guy.

Anything is possible. Its not possible if you chase her and dont walk away right now.

The best advice in the world is useless to deaf ears.
He's a troll...dont waste your breath...lol
 
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