marmel75
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No just the teller of truths people dont want to hear usually.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Feels like we don't have that much in common?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
B0redandl0nely
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**** you. I'm gonna get her back
B0redandl0nely
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One time I was on my way to her house and she texted me to come in when I got there and I got there and the door was open but I rang the bell away. Do you think I looked retarded there?
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No, he is being honest and reasonable. We have both given you good advice.
If you ask her about it youll look like the biggest chump. You will gain nothing and she gains everything. You will come across as jealous and needy and confirm her decision about breaking it off with you.
Walk away. Smile. Stay busy. Go find new chicks.
This one isnt worth your time or attention right now.
If you ask her about it youll look like the biggest chump. You will gain nothing and she gains everything. You will come across as jealous and needy and confirm her decision about breaking it off with you.
Walk away. Smile. Stay busy. Go find new chicks.
This one isnt worth your time or attention right now.
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I think all of this talk about getting someone back that doesnt want to come back makes you look retarded.
JMHO
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
marmel75
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Be gone troll. I banish you to the land of Trollia.
B0redandl0nely
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I thought you said it's still possible?
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And I said not to contact her too. And hours later you want to ask her if she is fvcking another guy.
Anything is possible. Its not possible if you chase her and dont walk away right now.
The best advice in the world is useless to deaf ears.
marmel75
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He's a troll...dont waste your breath...lol