Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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You’re so delusional and detached from reality. Gimme a minute to quote everyone else who also thought you were weird. It wasn’t just BPH and I.
Reality is not identified by consensus. If you're in a room full of people who think the world is flat, does it mean it's flat?

Just because a thought or idea looks weird to you doesn't mean it's detached from reality.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I got the sense that she was too mature for me.

Only desperate guys are willing bang a woman that will give them five minutes of pleasure and a week of low self-esteem.

Right now I just matched with a cute but, we'll say 'curvy' 19yo, who is more bangable for me. I'm getting better with my cold approaches. And lately I've been getting hit on by 30 something year old women from time to time.
But you were fine going to some 20 years old house when her parents were there and getting 10 seconds.

SMFH.

Beyond hopeless cause.

Making no sense talking yourself in circles trying to sound smart but having Swiss cheese size holes in your logic.
 

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But you were fine going to some 20 years old house when her parents were there and getting 10 seconds.

SMFH.

Beyond hopeless cause.

Making no sense talking yourself in circles trying to sound smart but having Swiss cheese size holes in your logic.
If that 30yo woman wasn't good enough for me then she's not good enough for me.

What I did with the 20yo woman was stupid, I'd put her way above the 30yo.

If you guys don't like that then fine, put me on ignore and let me carry about my business.

I rejected a 30yo woman and I shouldn't have to defend my actions to this extent.

This thread needs to be locked.
 
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If she's not good enough for me then she's not good enough for me.

This thread has become nonconstructive
Because you are continuing it for no reason.

You have shown us that you don't want to succeed, don't listen to those who want to help you, but revel in constantly updating it and engaging in arguments.

This thread is 13 pages. Your cold approach journal is 18 pages. Your "cracked the code" thread is 3 pages. Funny enough, your shortest thread in recent history was the one where you had sex for 10 seconds instead of inviting the girl to your place...

I think you enjoy whatever THIS is more than you enjoy being successful with women.
 

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Because you are continuing it for no reason.

You have shown us that you don't want to succeed, don't listen to those who want to help you, but revel in constantly updating it and engaging in arguments.

This thread is 13 pages. Your cold approach journal is 18 pages. Your "cracked the code" thread is 3 pages. Funny enough, your shortest thread in recent history was the one where you had sex for 10 seconds instead of inviting the girl to your place...

I think you enjoy whatever THIS is more than you enjoy being successful with women.
No, I have to defend my reputation. If you don't like this thread going on then please stop replying.


What started out as a demonstration of my improvement with texting ended up with some people who lost their minds because I rejected a woman
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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