"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You’re so delusional and detached from reality. Gimme a minute to quote everyone else who also thought you were weird. It wasn’t just BPH and I.
Reality is not identified by consensus. If you're in a room full of people who think the world is flat, does it mean it's flat?

Just because a thought or idea looks weird to you doesn't mean it's detached from reality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got the sense that she was too mature for me.

Only desperate guys are willing bang a woman that will give them five minutes of pleasure and a week of low self-esteem.

Right now I just matched with a cute but, we'll say 'curvy' 19yo, who is more bangable for me. I'm getting better with my cold approaches. And lately I've been getting hit on by 30 something year old women from time to time.
But you were fine going to some 20 years old house when her parents were there and getting 10 seconds.

SMFH.

Beyond hopeless cause.

Making no sense talking yourself in circles trying to sound smart but having Swiss cheese size holes in your logic.
 

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But you were fine going to some 20 years old house when her parents were there and getting 10 seconds.

SMFH.

Beyond hopeless cause.

Making no sense talking yourself in circles trying to sound smart but having Swiss cheese size holes in your logic.
If that 30yo woman wasn't good enough for me then she's not good enough for me.

What I did with the 20yo woman was stupid, I'd put her way above the 30yo.

If you guys don't like that then fine, put me on ignore and let me carry about my business.

I rejected a 30yo woman and I shouldn't have to defend my actions to this extent.

This thread needs to be locked.
 
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If she's not good enough for me then she's not good enough for me.

This thread has become nonconstructive
Because you are continuing it for no reason.

You have shown us that you don't want to succeed, don't listen to those who want to help you, but revel in constantly updating it and engaging in arguments.

This thread is 13 pages. Your cold approach journal is 18 pages. Your "cracked the code" thread is 3 pages. Funny enough, your shortest thread in recent history was the one where you had sex for 10 seconds instead of inviting the girl to your place...

I think you enjoy whatever THIS is more than you enjoy being successful with women.
 

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Because you are continuing it for no reason.

You have shown us that you don't want to succeed, don't listen to those who want to help you, but revel in constantly updating it and engaging in arguments.

This thread is 13 pages. Your cold approach journal is 18 pages. Your "cracked the code" thread is 3 pages. Funny enough, your shortest thread in recent history was the one where you had sex for 10 seconds instead of inviting the girl to your place...

I think you enjoy whatever THIS is more than you enjoy being successful with women.
No, I have to defend my reputation. If you don't like this thread going on then please stop replying.


What started out as a demonstration of my improvement with texting ended up with some people who lost their minds because I rejected a woman
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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