This should be good for those of you who have a fear of approaching, and want to try PU in a bar or club.
www.datingmistress.com
www.datingmistress.com
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fear of Approaching???
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
duke007
Master Don Juan
Holy sh1te! $80 an hour, with a minimum booking of 3 hours on the weekend!
That's ridiculous just buy a goddamn hooker if you're that scared of approaching
That's ridiculous just buy a goddamn hooker if you're that scared of approaching
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Hahahaha that's hilarious - and expensive!
I guess it could help "get the ball rolling" for someone who's a bit intimidated in that situation... but if someone's so afraid of approaching a woman that he needs "hired help" to do so for him, then how do you think he's gonna go having an actual conversation with the "woman of his dreams"?
EDIT: I wonder how much money they're making off this.
I guess it could help "get the ball rolling" for someone who's a bit intimidated in that situation... but if someone's so afraid of approaching a woman that he needs "hired help" to do so for him, then how do you think he's gonna go having an actual conversation with the "woman of his dreams"?
EDIT: I wonder how much money they're making off this.
h2o
Banned
omg. imo, that's stupid as hell.
haha, what if your new lady friend (you meet through this mistress) finds out your lovely mistress friend was being paid to be with you? lol, i think if that slipped out you'd be in trouble.
but seriously, if this site doesn't show you how to overcome your fear of approaching, i don't know what you're here for. just grab your balls and approach.
haha, what if your new lady friend (you meet through this mistress) finds out your lovely mistress friend was being paid to be with you? lol, i think if that slipped out you'd be in trouble.
but seriously, if this site doesn't show you how to overcome your fear of approaching, i don't know what you're here for. just grab your balls and approach.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by tom121
its like having an escort except shes your teacher
Yeah, that's one of my fantasies too. 'Oh you naughty boy'
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
i once dated my teacher, pretty alright, she doesnt seem any different from all the chicks i've dated, cept the sex was wilder.