This should be good for those of you who have a fear of approaching, and want to try PU in a bar or club.
www.datingmistress.com
www.datingmistress.com
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fear of Approaching???
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
duke007
Master Don Juan
Holy sh1te! $80 an hour, with a minimum booking of 3 hours on the weekend!
That's ridiculous just buy a goddamn hooker if you're that scared of approaching
That's ridiculous just buy a goddamn hooker if you're that scared of approaching
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Hahahaha that's hilarious - and expensive!
I guess it could help "get the ball rolling" for someone who's a bit intimidated in that situation... but if someone's so afraid of approaching a woman that he needs "hired help" to do so for him, then how do you think he's gonna go having an actual conversation with the "woman of his dreams"?
EDIT: I wonder how much money they're making off this.
I guess it could help "get the ball rolling" for someone who's a bit intimidated in that situation... but if someone's so afraid of approaching a woman that he needs "hired help" to do so for him, then how do you think he's gonna go having an actual conversation with the "woman of his dreams"?
EDIT: I wonder how much money they're making off this.
h2o
Banned
omg. imo, that's stupid as hell.
haha, what if your new lady friend (you meet through this mistress) finds out your lovely mistress friend was being paid to be with you? lol, i think if that slipped out you'd be in trouble.
but seriously, if this site doesn't show you how to overcome your fear of approaching, i don't know what you're here for. just grab your balls and approach.
haha, what if your new lady friend (you meet through this mistress) finds out your lovely mistress friend was being paid to be with you? lol, i think if that slipped out you'd be in trouble.
but seriously, if this site doesn't show you how to overcome your fear of approaching, i don't know what you're here for. just grab your balls and approach.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by tom121
its like having an escort except shes your teacher
Yeah, that's one of my fantasies too. 'Oh you naughty boy'
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
i once dated my teacher, pretty alright, she doesnt seem any different from all the chicks i've dated, cept the sex was wilder.