"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fear of Approaching???

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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duke007

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Holy sh1te! $80 an hour, with a minimum booking of 3 hours on the weekend!

That's ridiculous just buy a goddamn hooker if you're that scared of approaching
 

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Hahahaha that's hilarious - and expensive!

I guess it could help "get the ball rolling" for someone who's a bit intimidated in that situation... but if someone's so afraid of approaching a woman that he needs "hired help" to do so for him, then how do you think he's gonna go having an actual conversation with the "woman of his dreams"?

EDIT: I wonder how much money they're making off this.
 

tom121

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its like having an escort except shes your teacher :rolleyes:

i wouldn't mind having one if i have money laying around :D
 

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omg. imo, that's stupid as hell.

haha, what if your new lady friend (you meet through this mistress) finds out your lovely mistress friend was being paid to be with you? lol, i think if that slipped out you'd be in trouble.

but seriously, if this site doesn't show you how to overcome your fear of approaching, i don't know what you're here for. just grab your balls and approach.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jakeyboy

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i once dated my teacher, pretty alright, she doesnt seem any different from all the chicks i've dated, cept the sex was wilder. :D
 
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