This should be good for those of you who have a fear of approaching, and want to try PU in a bar or club.
www.datingmistress.com
www.datingmistress.com
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fear of Approaching???
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
duke007
Master Don Juan
Holy sh1te! $80 an hour, with a minimum booking of 3 hours on the weekend!
That's ridiculous just buy a goddamn hooker if you're that scared of approaching
That's ridiculous just buy a goddamn hooker if you're that scared of approaching
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Hahahaha that's hilarious - and expensive!
I guess it could help "get the ball rolling" for someone who's a bit intimidated in that situation... but if someone's so afraid of approaching a woman that he needs "hired help" to do so for him, then how do you think he's gonna go having an actual conversation with the "woman of his dreams"?
EDIT: I wonder how much money they're making off this.
I guess it could help "get the ball rolling" for someone who's a bit intimidated in that situation... but if someone's so afraid of approaching a woman that he needs "hired help" to do so for him, then how do you think he's gonna go having an actual conversation with the "woman of his dreams"?
EDIT: I wonder how much money they're making off this.
h2o
Banned
omg. imo, that's stupid as hell.
haha, what if your new lady friend (you meet through this mistress) finds out your lovely mistress friend was being paid to be with you? lol, i think if that slipped out you'd be in trouble.
but seriously, if this site doesn't show you how to overcome your fear of approaching, i don't know what you're here for. just grab your balls and approach.
haha, what if your new lady friend (you meet through this mistress) finds out your lovely mistress friend was being paid to be with you? lol, i think if that slipped out you'd be in trouble.
but seriously, if this site doesn't show you how to overcome your fear of approaching, i don't know what you're here for. just grab your balls and approach.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by tom121
its like having an escort except shes your teacher
Yeah, that's one of my fantasies too. 'Oh you naughty boy'
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
i once dated my teacher, pretty alright, she doesnt seem any different from all the chicks i've dated, cept the sex was wilder.