Da Realist
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She's a little chubby, but not fat.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
fat or not?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bigjohnson
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I think that's harsh but up to you. I won't call a fattie 'curvy' though, so if it bothers her then she has to fix the problem. Lack of respect? Not here, people have the right and privilege of doing as they wish and categorically saying this or that group is not due respect is generally foolish.immrtlwun said:
^I guess I came across wrong, I don't automatically disrespect fat people. I don't respect what being fat signifies- laziness, poor willpower, etc. Like I said, seeing a fat person that is working on getting in shape shows me that they are willing to change and demonstrate the opposite of the qualities that I mentioned earlier.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I think she's fat. But then again I have an unbiased surrounding. Most of the girls who live in Vegas are pressured because the competition for them is feirce. It's the same in southern california and parts of arizona, If you want at least a semi well built guy's attention, you'd dam sure better be at least not have a muffin top with those jeans if you're single.
If I were back in Maryland a few years back...or now if I hadn't been exposed to the good life, I'd think she was okay, but by warm weather/beach standards, she's unacceptable.
If I were back in Maryland a few years back...or now if I hadn't been exposed to the good life, I'd think she was okay, but by warm weather/beach standards, she's unacceptable.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
bigjohnson
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I'm not completely put off by body 'type' or whatever, the deal-breaker for the one on the left is that she's basically ugly. Her friend is fat too, but seems cute. I wouldn't waste (spend, whatever) much effort but if the friend fell into my lap I would provide ... services.Corona said:
I don't mind thick girls either, but lefty is right about at the limit of what I find attractive. Doesn't help that she's kind of got a beat-up face, but maybe it's just a bad pic.bigjohnson said:
I recant, I'd probably sleep with lefty if I was about 10 drinks in.
The one on the left is absolutely overweight, and a bit of a fattie. The one on the right is just a normal woman; i.e. she has a bit of flab on her, but is not really overweight and definitely not a fattie. Every guy here would rail her, should they have the chance.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I am very proud to say I'm morbidly obese on the BMI scale.
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it's more like my 100lb arse, but fair enough.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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I like big t!ts, big a$$es, and thick thighs so, I'd fvck em. I like skinny and thick girls but, that is just me. Yeah, there over weight but, not like a cow. Its your life and our opinion shouldn't matter.
shes fat....shes suckin up her tummy...but she needs to hit the gym.. but if she already is hittin the gym regularly, then MMAD!! respect coz that deserves it.
but her friend...i can give her a very effective work out regime in my bed with me thatll have her toned in 2 weeks..no question..it works....back and abs especially...
i used to be a lil out of shape, just slightly overweight, then realised my lifestyle meant very soon id be in the obese side of the population.
I switched it, ive been hitting the gym again and now im in superb shape and women love it, i take the stairs everywhere and im proud to show off..so i dont see why everyone cant put a little effort and feel this good.. unlike diddy..IM GUILTY!!
but her friend...i can give her a very effective work out regime in my bed with me thatll have her toned in 2 weeks..no question..it works....back and abs especially...
i used to be a lil out of shape, just slightly overweight, then realised my lifestyle meant very soon id be in the obese side of the population.
I switched it, ive been hitting the gym again and now im in superb shape and women love it, i take the stairs everywhere and im proud to show off..so i dont see why everyone cant put a little effort and feel this good..
unlike diddy..IM GUILTY!!"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
just so suave
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Shes not obese, but she is fat. Her friends chubby but shes still attractive.
Haha Slickaz you make me chuckle, you're the guy who created 'J holiday her' in some other thread aren't you?
Yezzur thatd be me..
Id Jholiday her in bed..
or i could even usher her in the club...
jack her with my johnson..
even superman that hoe..
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or i could get like diddy.."take that take that take that..."!!! :rockon: :rockon:
Id Jholiday her in bed..
or i could even usher her in the club...
jack her with my johnson..
even superman that hoe..
..
or i could get like diddy.."take that take that take that..."!!! :rockon: :rockon: