TenOfSpades
Don Juan
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Many guys condone having potential plates on FB for obvious reasons? What do you do when they try and add you? Do you accept and say whatever or just decline?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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At my age most females like to keep their FB private. But if I just had to have a couple plates on there, I would review my security settings and lock that shiz totally down. Private everything from wall posts to tagging... everything... You can set it up so they cant see or do anything. All I would want a female to do is see some of my profile info, some pics, my likes and interests, and the ability to send me messages and that's it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If you MUST use that ridiculous site, put everything on private. Let them see nothing of other girls or your friends, as Sgt just said. You are really better off saying you don't use it, and that's that. People reproduced before FB, I'm pretty sure of it.
instantnoodles
Don Juan
I really don't care to add a significant other on my Facebook either. If they already met my friends and family , then sure why not. Otherwise it's just my personal life and they shouldn't come near my special ones until they earn it 
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.