TenOfSpades
Don Juan
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Many guys condone having potential plates on FB for obvious reasons? What do you do when they try and add you? Do you accept and say whatever or just decline?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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At my age most females like to keep their FB private. But if I just had to have a couple plates on there, I would review my security settings and lock that shiz totally down. Private everything from wall posts to tagging... everything... You can set it up so they cant see or do anything. All I would want a female to do is see some of my profile info, some pics, my likes and interests, and the ability to send me messages and that's it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If you MUST use that ridiculous site, put everything on private. Let them see nothing of other girls or your friends, as Sgt just said. You are really better off saying you don't use it, and that's that. People reproduced before FB, I'm pretty sure of it.
instantnoodles
Don Juan
I really don't care to add a significant other on my Facebook either. If they already met my friends and family , then sure why not. Otherwise it's just my personal life and they shouldn't come near my special ones until they earn it 
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.