TenOfSpades
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Many guys condone having potential plates on FB for obvious reasons? What do you do when they try and add you? Do you accept and say whatever or just decline?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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At my age most females like to keep their FB private. But if I just had to have a couple plates on there, I would review my security settings and lock that shiz totally down. Private everything from wall posts to tagging... everything... You can set it up so they cant see or do anything. All I would want a female to do is see some of my profile info, some pics, my likes and interests, and the ability to send me messages and that's it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If you MUST use that ridiculous site, put everything on private. Let them see nothing of other girls or your friends, as Sgt just said. You are really better off saying you don't use it, and that's that. People reproduced before FB, I'm pretty sure of it.
instantnoodles
Don Juan
I really don't care to add a significant other on my Facebook either. If they already met my friends and family , then sure why not. Otherwise it's just my personal life and they shouldn't come near my special ones until they earn it 
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.