TenOfSpades
Don Juan
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Many guys condone having potential plates on FB for obvious reasons? What do you do when they try and add you? Do you accept and say whatever or just decline?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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At my age most females like to keep their FB private. But if I just had to have a couple plates on there, I would review my security settings and lock that shiz totally down. Private everything from wall posts to tagging... everything... You can set it up so they cant see or do anything. All I would want a female to do is see some of my profile info, some pics, my likes and interests, and the ability to send me messages and that's it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If you MUST use that ridiculous site, put everything on private. Let them see nothing of other girls or your friends, as Sgt just said. You are really better off saying you don't use it, and that's that. People reproduced before FB, I'm pretty sure of it.
instantnoodles
Don Juan
I really don't care to add a significant other on my Facebook either. If they already met my friends and family , then sure why not. Otherwise it's just my personal life and they shouldn't come near my special ones until they earn it 
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.