TenOfSpades
Don Juan
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Many guys condone having potential plates on FB for obvious reasons? What do you do when they try and add you? Do you accept and say whatever or just decline?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
- Thread starter TenOfSpades
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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At my age most females like to keep their FB private. But if I just had to have a couple plates on there, I would review my security settings and lock that shiz totally down. Private everything from wall posts to tagging... everything... You can set it up so they cant see or do anything. All I would want a female to do is see some of my profile info, some pics, my likes and interests, and the ability to send me messages and that's it.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If you MUST use that ridiculous site, put everything on private. Let them see nothing of other girls or your friends, as Sgt just said. You are really better off saying you don't use it, and that's that. People reproduced before FB, I'm pretty sure of it.
instantnoodles
Don Juan
I really don't care to add a significant other on my Facebook either. If they already met my friends and family , then sure why not. Otherwise it's just my personal life and they shouldn't come near my special ones until they earn it 
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
We're not married, so why should I give a damn to include you in my social networking accounts? :crackup:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.