Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Use it like a tool, along with your charm, looks, education, style and networking skills.franchise21 said:ok, being in high school you always get tied into these social networking sites like facebook...I was just wondering how DJ's use this to their advantage and how you can misuse this....
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Grand Wizzard Alamar said:A huge point to DJing is to lose the need for online help.
If you use online dating or myspace/facebook you are have no balls or confidence to step into the field and you're too lazy to get out and beat up some competition to score your action.
Even if you score big online, you're still an AFC for portraying your personality through black letters instead of feelings, articulation and reality.
A busy, catch-worthy man stays offline as much as possible because he is out doing better things than going to myspace just to get some girls.
So wouldn't you rather be doing something fun than wasting your time looking for the hottest girl on facebook, whom you only have a >1% chance of fvcking?