She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Use it like a tool, along with your charm, looks, education, style and networking skills.franchise21 said:ok, being in high school you always get tied into these social networking sites like facebook...I was just wondering how DJ's use this to their advantage and how you can misuse this....
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar said:A huge point to DJing is to lose the need for online help.
If you use online dating or myspace/facebook you are have no balls or confidence to step into the field and you're too lazy to get out and beat up some competition to score your action.
Even if you score big online, you're still an AFC for portraying your personality through black letters instead of feelings, articulation and reality.
A busy, catch-worthy man stays offline as much as possible because he is out doing better things than going to myspace just to get some girls.
So wouldn't you rather be doing something fun than wasting your time looking for the hottest girl on facebook, whom you only have a >1% chance of fvcking?