"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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f/r: Brought home two chicks

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fruitopiax said:
You remind me of one my good looking friends who also gets laid alot.

Basically good looks + confidence (to approach talk to them) + social proof (you always seem to be able to bring them to a party you know off) = laying hbs.
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True.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HB 10? And her friend said "finish quickly"?

Maybe. I dunno.

Whole thing seems a little vague IMO, wouldn't surprise me if it was bollocks.
 
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L777 said:
HB 10? And her friend said "finish quickly"?

Maybe. I dunno.

Whole thing seems a little vague IMO, wouldn't surprise me if it was bollocks.
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You're pathetic.

Hows the approach anxiety? Still struggling with it?
 
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stand said:
You're pathetic.

Hows the approach anxiety? Still struggling with it?
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I'm going to decline to respond to you, because, 1. I consider myself above people who seriously use PU terminology anyway, and 2. I'm almost certain the hottest girl I ever slept with was hotter than your "ten", even though I don't consider any girls tens.

Run along now.
 
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I'm going to decline to respond to you, because, 1. I consider myself above people who seriously use PU terminology anyway, and 2. I'm almost certain the hottest girl I ever slept with was hotter than your "ten", even though I don't consider any girls tens.

Run along now.
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You're going to decline to respond to me, yet what would you call what you just did?

Honestly, you're are on my nuts more than some of these girls in my FRs. Step the f.uck back you retarded gimp and appreciate greatness when you read it. I have little to no doubt you're printing off my FRs and putting them on your wall.

You sound like a miserable f.uck in everyone of your posts. You're obviously not getting laid. You're useless. Now run along and patiently wait for my next FR.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HandyAndy said:
'why cant weeeee be friends......why cant weeeeeee be friends?'
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Guy is obsessed with me.. Theres not much I can do, but consistently put him in his place.
 
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Keep up the good work. Remember life is about fun, fun and earning a living so you can have fun living!
 
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stand said:
You're going to decline to respond to me, yet what would you call what you just did?

Honestly, you're are on my nuts more than some of these girls in my FRs. Step the f.uck back you retarded gimp and appreciate greatness when you read it. I have little to no doubt you're printing off my FRs and putting them on your wall.

You sound like a miserable f.uck in everyone of your posts. You're obviously not getting laid. You're useless. Now run along and patiently wait for my next FR.
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Lol. You're cute when angry.<blows kiss and turns away>
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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good work stand, you are inspiration to the afcs everywhere
 
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brett012 said:
I can't understand why L777 is always pissed off when there is nothing even negative in any of stand's posts to get pissed off about. Maybe he can't get laid and that is why he's pissed off at every one.
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Well if you were a little more perceptive you'd notice the LR I posted from Last Thursday night. One of 3 this weekend. Straight up.

I only post reports that I feel will help the community, not every single lay. IMO that is boasting, and that was what Stand was doing in this post. Also it sounds fake. Most of his reports do, but that maybe just because of the vague way in which he writes them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well Im proud of you L777.

You posted 3 LR's about this last weekend and the completely negate any and all respect from me by being a douche in the LR's of another. Everyone should be inspired by you and learn not to be a douche for the sake of being a douche.
 
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L777 said:
Well if you were a little more perceptive you'd notice the LR I posted from Last Thursday night. One of 3 this weekend. Straight up.

I only post reports that I feel will help the community, not every single lay. IMO that is boasting, and that was what Stand was doing in this post. Also it sounds fake. Most of his reports do, but that maybe just because of the vague way in which he writes them.
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yeah stand isn't making this stuff up. I don't think anyone could except some adult film director and even they suck ass. So they're real. And besides I think this stuff does help guys. It can show them how to act. Stand doesn't get into every detail because we should be able to see. Stand's good there's no doubt about that. What would make him king is if he could get some virgin who isn't at a party or in that kind of atmosphere initially to sleep with him. I know he got a girl from the mall to go to a party so that can count kind of. But she wasn't a virgin I would imagine. Anyway, good post stand. Keep it up. And damn, only 19. you are a natural I would guess.
 
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stand said:
Absolutely. Why the F not? Chocolate milk is the sh!t. And like mentioned I wanted to try and bang the other girl and it got her in the bed.
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I thought it was funny, that being said, I could never drink white milk after having sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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