"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
f/r: Brought home two chicks
- Thread starter stand
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
L777
Master Don Juan
Maybe. I dunno.
Whole thing seems a little vague IMO, wouldn't surprise me if it was bollocks.
L777
Master Don Juan
I'm going to decline to respond to you, because, 1. I consider myself above people who seriously use PU terminology anyway, and 2. I'm almost certain the hottest girl I ever slept with was hotter than your "ten", even though I don't consider any girls tens.stand said:
Run along now.
You're going to decline to respond to me, yet what would you call what you just did?L777 said:
Honestly, you're are on my nuts more than some of these girls in my FRs. Step the f.uck back you retarded gimp and appreciate greatness when you read it. I have little to no doubt you're printing off my FRs and putting them on your wall.
You sound like a miserable f.uck in everyone of your posts. You're obviously not getting laid. You're useless. Now run along and patiently wait for my next FR.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
L777
Master Don Juan
Lol. You're cute when angry.<blows kiss and turns away>stand said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
L777
Master Don Juan
Understood.stand said:
HarlequinMan
Don Juan
L777
Master Don Juan
Well if you were a little more perceptive you'd notice the LR I posted from Last Thursday night. One of 3 this weekend. Straight up.brett012 said:
I only post reports that I feel will help the community, not every single lay. IMO that is boasting, and that was what Stand was doing in this post. Also it sounds fake. Most of his reports do, but that maybe just because of the vague way in which he writes them.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You posted 3 LR's about this last weekend and the completely negate any and all respect from me by being a douche in the LR's of another. Everyone should be inspired by you and learn not to be a douche for the sake of being a douche.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Michele l'Arcangelo
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ezily
Senior Don Juan
yeah stand isn't making this stuff up. I don't think anyone could except some adult film director and even they suck ass. So they're real. And besides I think this stuff does help guys. It can show them how to act. Stand doesn't get into every detail because we should be able to see. Stand's good there's no doubt about that. What would make him king is if he could get some virgin who isn't at a party or in that kind of atmosphere initially to sleep with him. I know he got a girl from the mall to go to a party so that can count kind of. But she wasn't a virgin I would imagine. Anyway, good post stand. Keep it up. And damn, only 19. you are a natural I would guess.L777 said:
SharinganUser
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stand said:
I thought it was funny, that being said, I could never drink white milk after having sex.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.